Ex prob

[DonJuanit0]

So, it's all about this ex of mine... We were together 2 years ago and we were like, perfect... I broke up with her cause I got bored after 1 year of relationship! Uhm, I understood my mistake after some time but it was too late to try again... I would look stupid or smth... So, now, after 2 years we get together, talk bla bla bla! She is talking about the past, how nice it was and staff like this... So, I kinda missed all we had together and I decided to go for it even though it's 2 years later... I am trying to talk to her every time I can without being annoying or making her believe that I am her pet or smth! She is so kind to me everytime we talk but so far away if I don't make the first move and send her a message or smth! What I got after 2 weeks of talking was this date today! (We met each other 1 month ago too but only friendly talking and she was working) I am supposed to meet her in 5 hours and talk... I want to make my move on her... I will ask her if she has someone else just in case and move on! The thing is, should I tell her what I really feel about her? Will she believe me or she will just think that I am telling all that staff cause I just want an easy f*ck? I am confused about how to make my move today... I've done it many times with other girls and I am not afraid being rejected but with her it's different! Any advice of how should I approach her today?

 

[MacAvoy]

Treat her like any other new women you would be dating. Don't try to jump back into a relationship with her, you'll look like a desparate chump that way. If you truly want her back, just be a great fun guy to be around, let her subtely know that you have other options, make her want to tie you down.

Remember Anti Dump

You should be free as a bird, flapping around, singing, full of joy with life. Women want to trap the bird and throw it in a cage (cage = committment). When birds try to fly into the cage, wouldn't you think something is wrong with that bird? After all, who wants a bird that WANTS to be in the cage? No, women want the birds that are FREE, WILD, and BEAUTIFUL. They want A GOOD CATCH. Good Catches do not fly into cages. Only wounded or needy birds do.

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[DonJuanit0]

So, you're saying that I souldn't really make my move just to be a fun guy to be with for today... What you said that I will look desperate is exactly what I am afraid of...

 

[Gia Giovanni]

So, it's all about this ex of mine... We were together 2 years ago and we were like, perfect... I broke up with her cause I got bored after 1 year of relationship! Uhm, I understood my mistake after some time but it was too late to try again... I would look stupid or smth... So, now, after 2 years we get together, talk bla bla bla! She is talking about the past, how nice it was and staff like this... So, I kinda missed all we had together and I decided to go for it even though it's 2 years later... I am trying to talk to her every time I can without being annoying or making her believe that I am her pet or smth! She is so kind to me everytime we talk but so far away if I don't make the first move and send her a message or smth! What I got after 2 weeks of talking was this date today! (We met each other 1 month ago too but only friendly talking and she was working) I am supposed to meet her in 5 hours and talk... I want to make my move on her... I will ask her if she has someone else just in case and move on! The thing is, should I tell her what I really feel about her? Will she believe me or she will just think that I am telling all that staff cause I just want an easy f*ck? I am confused about how to make my move today... I've done it many times with other girls and I am not afraid being rejected but with her it's different! Any advice of how should I approach her today?

pathetic

 

[MacAvoy]

update? what happened?