"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ex Plate Has Gonorrhea! WTF

soulforge

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a little background to this situation

i met this chick on pof... talked to her for about an hour online & within a couple of hours of talking she drove down straight to my house, late at night.

within another hour i was f@cking her! hell she even bought a dildo & some lube in her handbag on the first date (if you can call it that) I didn't know this till later in the night, when she pulled them out

anyhow, had a argument with her a couple of months ago that got out opf hand & we stopped talking! not spoke to her since, apart from a couple of abusive agressive text messages she sent me

anyhow 2 weeks ago, i got a text message from her, claiming that she has GONORRHEA

and that i am a dirty desease carrying bastarrd who has gave it to her... she was very agressive & insulting...


here is the thing... 2 months before i met her... i had myself fully checked out & i was clean as a whistle... no std of any kind.. i even have myself checked out for HIV

now since she sent me that text & has accused me of giving her this STD i have been and had myself fully checked out again.. and again i am clean... no STD at all


how do i respond back to this sluut?

it's her who is the carrier & more than likely got it off some other dude she was banging before me


what should my response be????
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You're not banging her anymore, you owe her nothing, you're clean. Personally I wouldn't respond, you have nothing to prove to her.
 

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hope you're not trolling

delete her number, ignore her, why do you feel you have to answer to her?

you shouldn't bang women if you don't know how to respond in kind to sticky situations.
 

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Sometimes STDs take a long time to manifest after the initial infection. Do another test in like a month or three.
 

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Are you guys crazy or what?

Whats the point of not replying back at least once and telling he he is clean?

Just tell her your clean and then ignore her.

Ignoring her msg is going to look suss...

geez...wtf is wrong with you guys:nono:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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" checked, I'm clean. Good luck"

And done.
 

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If I was you I'd reply with: "Just found out... get yourself checked for herpes."

Edit: Sorry, just read Danger's post above and agree with it.
 

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hey guys i have below typed out the exact text message that she sent me..

keep in mind, while i was seeing this chick, she was pushing me hard for a relationship & was trying her best to come across as a nice caring, sweet woman. with MORALS


RIGHT YOU ARE A DIRTY FVCKER.. YOU NEED TO THINK ABOUT WHO YOU SLEPT WITH BEFORE ME OR WHILE YOU WAS SEEING ME!

I WENT TO THE CLININC & GOT CHECKED OUT, AND FOUND OUT THAT I HAVE GONORRHEA.. YOU ARE THE ONLY PERSON I SLEPT WITH, SO IT'S FVCKING COME FROM YOU.

THANKS A FVCKING BUNCH HOW HUMILIATING YOU DIRTY RAT! BETTER YOU STAY IN YOUR HOME TOWN, WITH THE REST OF THE FILTHY SCUTTER MEN LIKE YOU!

DO WHAT YOU WANT WITH THIS INFORMATION, BUT I KNOW IT HAS COME FROM YOU.. READ UP ON IT, YOU FILTHY CARRIER OF GERMS!

DON'T CONTACT ME BACK YOU FILTHY SCUM...


this girl fvcked me withing 2 hours of talking on pof & bought a dildo & lube with her on first meet... she admitted that before me, she met another guy off pof and went straight to his house too, as first date

so guys... how should i react to her vicious nasty text? i was clean when i met her & i am clean now

i really really feel like rubbing it in her face, and let her know, that it is her who is the disease carrier and not me
 

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take and text her a picture of the thing that says you're clean

if she still keeps bothering you, say that the HIV test was positive and then immediately block her number
 

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i have got written confirmation that i do not have anykind of std..

that text she sent me is very vicious... she sound like a nice stable woman to you? lol

anyhow i really do think, i should send her the confirmation & let that slvy know that if anyone is a germ carrier... then it is her!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My man soul was good bro.. fvck this bpd bishes man my ex bpd pulled off this same sh!!tt turns out it was all lies ... There brain is diseased, don't even bother replying. Smh
 

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You are a man right? Look at this logically.

First of all, she is a slvt. She came over to a strangers house while barely knowing him and brought items that prove she had a intent to have sexual relations with you after only two hours of "knowing" you, and having never even met you. This is a gigantic red-flag as to her sexual promiscuous and general demeanor.

Second, you said you had an argument with her (She turned a molehill into a mountain because she is a woman) and you did the right thing, ignored her, infuriated her into sending a couple of aggressive text, and continued to ignore her.

She went off to blow and have sex with a train of guys from POF (Sorry your not THAT special). She got in a dry spell on her c0ck carousal and in typical mental illness fashion she un-compartmentalized you and thought the best way to get your attention was to send you a fabricated story about having an STD. This is her shame and lack of inner self bubbling to the surface. She has, in her head come up with a reason to think you are a piece of garbage. ( See; Projecting, she knows she is the piece of human garbage)

Chances are she does not have Gonorrhea. You certainly do not and you have done your due diligence in finding out for yourself. That is all that matters.

You are clearly dealing with a mentally unstable person, and most likely a severe personality disorder, any engagement with her will end up with you losing. You cannot fight this person with logic, reason, or rationality. You cannot win.

You have no reason to speak with her and should avoid this human in the same fashion you would avoid a pile of toxic waste.
 

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soulforge said:
RIGHT YOU ARE A DIRTY FVCKER.. YOU NEED TO THINK ABOUT WHO YOU SLEPT WITH BEFORE ME OR WHILE YOU WAS SEEING ME!

I WENT TO THE CLININC & GOT CHECKED OUT, AND FOUND OUT THAT I HAVE GONORRHEA.. YOU ARE THE ONLY PERSON I SLEPT WITH, SO IT'S FVCKING COME FROM YOU.

THANKS A FVCKING BUNCH HOW HUMILIATING YOU DIRTY RAT! BETTER YOU STAY IN YOUR HOME TOWN, WITH THE REST OF THE FILTHY SCUTTER MEN LIKE YOU!

DO WHAT YOU WANT WITH THIS INFORMATION, BUT I KNOW IT HAS COME FROM YOU.. READ UP ON IT, YOU FILTHY CARRIER OF GERMS!

DON'T CONTACT ME BACK YOU FILTHY SCUM...

lol dirty rat, what kind of a woman says that? when she's sleeping around online what does she expect?
 

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soulforge said:
DON'T CONTACT ME BACK YOU FILTHY SCUM...
Drop your chumpish desire to " 'splain yoself to a ho " and honor her wishes.
 
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