Ex-oneitis ...

[AlexTheGreat]

... seems to be interested in me... or so my friends say. And I've seen her act in some ways, giving me signs of interest and ****, but I'm not really sure as to how to take them (she friendzoned me last year, so I wanna know if it could be interest or just "being nice")

So yeah, first thing, which I've noticed quite a bit of time ago .... whenever I give her a hug, her heart's always beating real hard... First idea was "HOLY **** ! SHE'S INTO ME, THE DJ THING WORKS !!", but then I found my senses again, and thought somehting more .... realistic ? such as "hmmm she could just have a loud-beating heart". But this seems to happen almost every time I hug her, and I've asked my friend, and he says he doesn't feel anything when hugging the same girl .... little bit curious but, nothing earth-shattering.

Then, as I was chilling today with my buddies, she comes over and starts talking to me, asking me "if I saw X" (X being a common friend of ours). So, then I punch back with "Ahh, so that's the only reason you're coming to see me, to ask me if I saw this or that person ?" on a joking tone, and we started a convo and had some fun. Left with a great hug (with her pumping heart on my chest .... ) ; afterwards, after she had gone away, my friends are all like "yo, she's so into you man ! She was all like checking you out and stuff !"

So, I'm not exactly the only one that thinks she might be interested, to some degree in me ... Could what I described be qualified as a sign she removed me from the friendzone and into the real one ?

 

[LikRetsam]

Are you interrested? Move from there.

 

[TonyTheTigerOI]

Its a few step process...

1) what do you want?
If you are posting about it, chances are you are interested

2) Who do you want? What do you know about her?
She huggs a lot of guys and has small tits [how else would u feel her heartbeat? lol].

If she payed attention to YOU and not your friends then she is not TOTALLY sunshine. If she payed attention to you all equally, she IS. Your friends got the impression she likes you, so chances are shes not all sunshine. This is good.

How old are you guys? How much game do you guys have [how much experience]?

Im guessing you are fresh or soph in hs? If so you guys dont have game and any rejections she tossed you in the past dont matter [game rejections are different than simple "no i will not go out with you"s].

^^ correct me if any of this is wrong.

3) Plan of action...

If she is sunshining YOU after turning you down a while back... play it safe for a while. The next 2 times you see her be really energetic. Mix sunshine with C+F. That means be loud and laugh along with her, but also make some confident remarks - basically what you did last time. If the 3rd time you see her she is SILL energetic with you its time to BEAT HER AT HER OWN GAME. Flirt with her as she flirts with you, turn up the C+F and energy level. After a few moments, as soon as her energy is close to yours and she is smiling and having fun - date close.

"Wow this is kinda fun... you know, ive been dying for some hot chocolate, I am gonna go to starbucks this weekend, you should come along!"

"k, well incase I get struck by lightening and I cant make it, lets exchange #s"

4) Have FUN pulling ^^ that

5) Sex

 

[AlexTheGreat]

we're both in 11th grade .... whatever that is in american-style naming.


Anyways, what do you mean by "Sunshine" ?

She rejected me last year while I was an AFC, which made me become an even bigger AFC by trying to get her afterwards. So, around the end of last year, I got pissed, grew some balls, and forgot about her during the summer. Stopped talking to her almost entirely, didn't hang out with her anymore, etc. I entered my class of rehabilitation, and here I am now. Now, the anger is all gone, and I'm even thankful for what she's done to me (I'm thankful she rejected me, or else, I wouldn't have found out about this site, and I'd still be a pathetic AFC begging girls out and buying flowers and **** .... ughhh )

 

[AlexTheGreat]

alright, update : she supposedly said to one of my friends that "people seem to think that she's interested in me, but she's not really". Real or bull****, I don't give a **** anymore lol. Except if she starts jumping up and down my leg like a little puppy dog, no go from me. And, as always, I'd say it's "actions before words".

Now I just need to find my morale back.