"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ex-oneitis' bf - afc?

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Right so im out in the local club, having a laugh.

Walked down the corridor between the 2nd and 3rd bar.

Saw my ex-oneitis with her bf behind her (hes an All Ireland boxer or something like that, slight bit bigger than me).

So i ignore them both and continue walking past them. When i get to him he nudges me purposely for no reason.

Hate when ppl do those kinda things to me coz im a likeable fella! :)

What do you guys think of him?

What would a DJ do in this situation? Just ignore him?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I would say "hi" to my ex and later move on. Just on the polite side, nothing more. If your ex bf wants to talk to you, ask him what's up. Leave after that.
 
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He only wants to speak with his fists.

Know what im saying?

I could really annoy him by being all clingy and friendly with the ex... nah ill just leave it!
 
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THe guy wouldnt nudge you if he didnt feel that you were a threat to his masculinity and relationship. Good job at keeping your cool :)
 
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Thanks but i think it was to say:

'Hey, look at me! I got her!'

AFC behaviour yeah?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by silverwex
Thanks but i think it was to say:

'Hey, look at me! I got her!'

AFC behaviour yeah?
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No testorone driven ass*hole behavior. He knows he can take you and is challenging you. Stupid shamus! What a bully.

But laddy, you did they right thing. Next time if he nudges him say "excuse me can I help you?" Don't forget to say hello to your ex to show her that your not really bothered and have moved on! they hate it when you do that.
 
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"excuse me can I help you?"
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I would not say sh#t to him. Not unless you can take care of yourself. He's looking for a confruntation - so don't give him the chance
 
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You did the right thing. If it happens again, just ignore him, and give the ex the vibe like your better than him, but don't do it in an ******* way. Do it in a nice, sincere way, and he'll look like a ****head, and she'll want you again. All violence in those situations is lame unless you HAVE TO to protect yourself. Than, if you stomp some ass, you look cool too, only in that situation though.
 
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