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Ex-one-itis keeps inviting me for lunch (and I keep turning down her offers)

Akuma

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I've had a one-itis with this girl for a while. We used to hang out relatively often, then she found a boyfriend, we stopped hanging out... and you know the story. Earlier this year I decided to cut off all contact. All was good till recently. She's being e-mailing me over and over to have diner. I turned down all of her offers (at least 5 times, maybe more), but she keeps asking. Last week, she e-mailed me asking if I was mad at her. My reply was something like this: "No, not at all. Just busy. Maybe later. -me"

Today, I received yet another e-mail asking me if I wanted to have diner with her and a common friend (whom I don't really want to see either) next week.

How to handle this? Do I just politely decline again? :crazy:
 

changeherways

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Akuma said:
How to handle this? Do I just politely decline again? :crazy:
simple line:

"look; im a busy man. i only have time in my life for women who are more than friends"

keep your ground and dont apologize or give in no matter what sh!t she throws at you.

she'll most likely call you an a$$ and be on her way.
 

changeherways

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simple line:

"look; im a busy man. i only have time in my life for women who are more than friends"

keep your ground and dont apologize or give in no matter what sh!t she throws at you.

she'll most likely call you an azz and be on her way.
 
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