"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ex-one-itis keeps inviting me for lunch (and I keep turning down her offers)

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I've had a one-itis with this girl for a while. We used to hang out relatively often, then she found a boyfriend, we stopped hanging out... and you know the story. Earlier this year I decided to cut off all contact. All was good till recently. She's being e-mailing me over and over to have diner. I turned down all of her offers (at least 5 times, maybe more), but she keeps asking. Last week, she e-mailed me asking if I was mad at her. My reply was something like this: "No, not at all. Just busy. Maybe later. -me"

Today, I received yet another e-mail asking me if I wanted to have diner with her and a common friend (whom I don't really want to see either) next week.

How to handle this? Do I just politely decline again? :crazy:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Akuma said:
How to handle this? Do I just politely decline again? :crazy:
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simple line:

"look; im a busy man. i only have time in my life for women who are more than friends"

keep your ground and dont apologize or give in no matter what sh!t she throws at you.

she'll most likely call you an a$$ and be on her way.
 
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simple line:

"look; im a busy man. i only have time in my life for women who are more than friends"

keep your ground and dont apologize or give in no matter what sh!t she throws at you.

she'll most likely call you an azz and be on her way.
 
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