EX never shows up to work

[For_F]

I dated a coworker who's only part time at work and it got serious/intense quick
Were together for half a year but hung out every day and bla bla. I've never been a big afc, I'm too proud naturally but I did do and feel a lot of deep pathetic things both during and after break up.
Question: it's been a year since break up, I'm doing great now. Have a new girl who is incomparably better in all ways, I spun plates for several months, landed an awesome job etc. We've had about 6 big meetings within the organization to which she was supposed to attend but hasn't come to one. She didn't come to the Christmas or new years party. She has veven dropped shifts when she knows it'll just be us two. Why?

 

[pdx1138]

who cares?

You shouldn't. You got all that going on and still care what's up with her?

Forget her.

 

[gravityeyelids]

We've had about 6 big meetings within the organization to which she was supposed to attend but hasn't come to one. She didn't come to the Christmas or new years party. She has veven dropped shifts when she knows it'll just be us two. Why?

Because it's awkward being around your ex for extended amounts of time.

**** it dude. Move on like you claim you did. Who cares?

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

girls are crazy, that's why.

As long as you didn't act weird towards her after the break up, and moved on.....

then she still has an emotional attachment towards you. She either can't be around you because she knows she has feelings for you and it would bring them out. Or, she thinks you will notice, which you did, and make an attempt to contact her, which you're not.

 

[For_F]

I'm not fixated on her or this situation, just thought I'd type out loud and aee if any dj's have experienced something similar or had some input.

Break up was tough and inspired my move to here and a huge change to my game. So much good came out of this experience which at the time was pretty hard. I feel as if this is at least one up on the whpres who regularly destroy afc's. Perhaps a case sample for men starting their dj journey to read. My ex was your typical attractive dumb b1tch who went through life doing as she pleased.

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