Ex LTR - Pregnant?!?

[slickaz]

i think ya'll remember the last time i wrote about my LTR.

i dont suffer from ONEitis, i have been with many girls since.
But. EVERYTIME!

the only person i feel comfortable with, and turn to when im down in the dirty or need advice from, shes always there to pick it up.
She has never cheated, never really done anything hugely wrong.
couple times we fought, she acts childish and our parents dont like us seeing each other.

anyway she sends me a text last night saying 'shes been having complicated monthly flows and has been to the doctor, doctor says to "wait one more week and if you dont get a full period come back for a preg test, but most probably you're preg"

i trust this girl with everything i got, shes a lawyer and i know she hasnt been with anyone else in the last 4 years but me.

but ive been naughty and also im not really sure on what to do.
help?!?

and yes! she comes over to my place sometimes and it invariably ends up in us having s3x and yes sometimes we done it without rubber!..

but what do i do now?!

 

[dannyegg4575]

hand the man his uniform, put him with the rest of the boys who are locked up.

congrats dude, you're a dad!

i trust this girl with everything i got, shes a lawyer and i know she hasnt been with anyone else in the last 4 years but me.

you trust a lawyer? ok...

but seriously, if she's pregnant, do the right thing. You gotta take care of her and raise the child.

 

[slickaz]

that is so sad bro!..lol

hahaha let me say this though, if there was any woman id ever have a baby with, itd be her...and im not just saying that.its coz she really is a good chic..

ofcourse if we were really having a baby then im super happy to pop the question tomoro! and give the baby and her my last name..money is not an issue..

but i dunno what to do coz is it wrong to feel like this is unbelievable? or darn! i hope this is not true..?

 

[J Roc]

smh @ guys marrying women just because they get them pregnant. typical AFC behavior..

 

[dannyegg4575]

lol @ J Roc for being an idiot.

You don't have to marry her if you don't love her. But you started the mess, you better do the responsible thing.

 

[slickaz]

yeh dumb4ss! im not marrying her coz shes pregnant..ive been with her for 4 years.i bought us a house, 2 brand new executive cars a dog and treated her like i would my wife..at one point we were going to get engaged..she treats me like she would a husband, she cooks she cares, she takes me on expensive vacations and buys me things with names i cant even pronounce.....and most of all shes trustworthy..

like i said in my previous post if i was to have a baby with anygirl it would be her..and you still talkin crack...i may be a rookie "DJ" but my mama brought me up to be ethical and a responsible man, if its my baby i dont give a rodents rect*m if u think im AFC im gonna bring that child up..

ps: if u got nothing constructive or passively funny to say dont say nothin..read the post and move on..dont diss.

 

[J Roc]

lol @ J Roc for being an idiot.

You don't have to marry her if you don't love her. But you started the mess, you better do the responsible thing.

the only responibility he has is to take care of his baby which he can do without getting married. I've seen so many men marry b1tches just because they got them pregnant and though it was "the right thing to do".

 

[J Roc]

yeh dumb4ss! im not marrying her coz shes pregnant..ive been with her for 4 years.i bought us a house, 2 brand new executive cars a dog and treated her like i would my wife..at one point we were going to get engaged..she treats me like she would a husband, she cooks she cares, she takes me on expensive vacations and buys me things with names i cant even pronounce.....and most of all shes trustworthy..

like i said in my previous post if i was to have a baby with anygirl it would be her..and you still talkin crack...i may be a rookie "DJ" but my mama brought me up to be ethical and a responsible man, if its my baby i dont give a rodents rect*m if u think im AFC im gonna bring that child up..

ps: if u got nothing constructive or passively funny to say dont say nothin..read the post and move on..dont diss.

i hope you two live happily ever after

 

[slickaz]

thank you sir...

I realised you helped me answer my question:
i would want to bring the baby up..so..you know..least we got somewhere with that convo.lol

what i want to know is, has anyone been in this situation before?
what do you say!.
i mean what the hell!...lol

 

[dannyegg4575]

chill out dude. having a baby in your life is the most amazing thing in the world. no words can describe the feeling.

be happy and rejoice you are going to be a dad.

good luck!

 

[jafyk]

Why don't you wait till she confirms she's pregnant. I don't see a problem for you besides leaving the bachelor life behind. I mean you deeply care about her and she for you. You're financially ok. Sometimes I feel getting a woman pregnant is a good way to get her,lol.

 

[DonGorgon]

Welll at least she will be able to afford the kid... money is 99A% OF THE EQUATION.

 

[inerte]

I wrote a long post detailing past experiences with this subject but I decided to delete and just say this.

1) Be sure that she's pregnant;

2) If she is, CONGRATULATIONS, on two things: Children are awesome; and you're acting like a man here.

Being a DJ is ultimately following your manly instincts. Either approaching women, closing or actually being a dad.

If that's what you want, go for it. And let none else talk sh1t about you.