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ex-ljbf starts talking to your girl, what to do?

h7amzeh

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lets just say that you liked a girl in your afc days. you have a unique bond to her

because you were her brother's best friend and his wishes were for you to watch over

her as he would. she liked you in the beginning but found out how much of an afc you

were and ends up going after one of your friends.

now, you finally realise your mistake, find tis website and a few other pimp sources

and change yourself for yourself. during this time, you cut off all ties and

cummunication with this girl. and your change begins.

after getting your way with a few girls you decide to give her a call after about 3

months and start gaming. it works! you dissappear again and in that time you pull a

VERY hot girl. this girl goes goo goo for you and the days are golden. every couple of

weeks or so, you call this girl back and flirt with her. she get hot and wet and whatever

in between when you bless her with a call. you notice a BIG change in her and how

direct she is in getting with you.

"well, if you and i got together in the future..."
"i was just thinking about that time we made out on the sofa that night..."
"you want a physical relationship with me don't you?! just say it!"

one time when i was gaming i said abruptly, "you're so turned on right now, its

pathetic!" she replied excitedly, "well, are you??!"

keep in mind that she found out in the middle of all this that i had a girl and she kept

going. my girl's bday was coming up and i set up a party at a club and invited my flirt

to come. she said she would and called me maybe 12 times that night just to check up

on what was going on and for me to wait for her and that she was trying to get around

her family plans. in the end, she gave up and called me and then asked if she could

speak to my girl and wish her happy bday.

i handed the phone to her and i didn't realise until last night that they switched

numbers! about a week later, after we went camping, i noticed a change in my girl.

the little has been trying to get in between us and break us up! telling her all my past

afc secrets and and things ive buried about my past that i told her when i was mr.

chump! argh!

now, what would you guys do in this situation? you wanna keep your girl, strengthen the relationship, expose the other one and keep your composure and not freak out. help a bratha!
 

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good god man. either bone this 'second' chick and/or get rid of her. It sounds like nothing good will come of her. Also she's a slut, i doubt you want her over your current girl for a relationship?

You're a man, demand your girl to stop talking to her. Shes not a good influence.

Also, what happened in your past is in your past, you've changed. You were once a chump, and your girl knows that but dont be embarassed about it, look at what you are now! Look how far you've come. If your girl cant see that then she is dumb(sorry to say).

Hey, no matter what it is, its never as bad as that thing you would do for 20 million $ :p so be thankful it isnt.


*squish*
 

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Originally posted by Pook

Endure. All your exes will have one thing in common: they want you to fail. The last thing they want is to run into you later and see you successful. No! They want to see you remain the same or sink lower.

Endure. All the girls that shot you down: they want you to fail. A big fear in woman is missing The Great Catch. Give substance to their fear.
well, your situation proves this perfectly.
 

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okay, first off "squishy", you know who the girl is that i should bone! n! my current girl thinks i'm the bomb and her and her best friend a! were fighting over me the other day and a! wants to take ME out this week. so no, no1 knows the loser i was when i went to where it was that i went to last year for a whole year by myself. punk! that part of me was buried a few months after i came back and you and i both know that i don't associate with more than 5% of the people that saw me like that nowadays! i do,however, run into them every once in a while and they are shocked at how much further i am in the race. we'll use them as accessories.

that girl, btw, wasn't an ex. i was ljbf-ed by her and now she regrets it. now, they don't know i found out but i did. i freaked miss ljbf out last night by hinting at it. called her just now, drove her crazy with attraction goo and she immediatly asked about me and my girl. i was just like, "yea i wish i could see her more often but i'm so busy, its good to have a hottie that understands..."

she was like, "WHAT?!?!!!" that got her sooo good. all the crap she's been doing and i'm still standing unaffected. this will definately get back to my girl and nothing bad will come out off it.



i'm gonna go bone my secratary. thax guys. keep it coming!
 
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