Yeah, so the ex girlfriend is talking massive amounts of **** about me to anyone who will listen. How should I assess this situation. I want to just ignore it, but her friends are really hot and I may want to get with them. Should I confront her, or just ignore it?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Ex is talking **** about me.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
jeffthechef
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who cares about what she says..
two groups of people will listen to what she says
1. the group that doesn't give a fuk..they'll prolly forget it by tomorrow
2. the group that cares...they'll ask you about it before they make up their mind..
the world is full of much more serious matters and problems..don't worry yourself with this one
two groups of people will listen to what she says
1. the group that doesn't give a fuk..they'll prolly forget it by tomorrow
2. the group that cares...they'll ask you about it before they make up their mind..
the world is full of much more serious matters and problems..don't worry yourself with this one
SharinganUser
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Do you have anything incriminating or something embarrassing about her? This is why you should always take pictures of her naked.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Yes, I do. I could potentially destroy her reputation.SharinganUser said:Do you have anything incriminating or something embarrassing about her?
Don't get sucked in, cause then you'll seem just as insecure as she is.Adam B said:Yes, I do. I could potentially destroy her reputation.