ex is stocking me on Facebook

[Willard]

Last night and tonight when I go on Facebook, her and her friend are both online, a couple of minutes later they both disappear. they must be on the phone with each checking out to see if I'm posting other women. I'm not going to do that, I just posted some pics of Chinese lion dancing, that went on after my Kung Fu class. The class really helped, I made a couple of friends right away and I'm going to the gym with them after tomorrow's class.

My sick heartbreak feeling actually went away after the class. I told her I was going to disable my Facebook after we broke up instead of de-friending her and deleting her photos. She talked me into keeping it up because it is important to me. She never went on Facebook before this, her last activity is from last year.

I think it's cute she is doing this, we've been no contact since Wednesday, I'm not sure how long she will last before she tries to contact me.

I have a date with a really Asian girl on Sunday, 39 no kids, not much of an accent, Masters degree, shes an hour away, but I don't really mind. I hope I like her, that way I can just forget about the ex.

 

[Married Buried]

I doubt she is logging out. They are going into hiding or something. Women love to mindf/ck you even after the relationship is over. They know exactly what they do and what you are thinking. They know it drives you crazy too. Don't even go on facebook for your own menatal health.

 

[Willard]

Really, I just thought she didn't know how to turn off chat. I don't even care if she is trying to mind **** me. I'm starting training tomorrow for the two Spartan races I have coming up, I'm going to make posts of my training and my progress for training, I'm going to get better shape than I am now. I'm already in great shape from 5-6 days a week at the gym, but I don't have abs.

If I don't meet someone I think I might be able to feel the same way about, I might take her back. I'm making a list of things that she does that bother me about her, she's receptive to change if I tell her something bugs me. It's going to be on my terms If we get back together.

 

[Married Buried]

Really, I just thought she didn't know how to turn off chat. I don't even care if she is trying to mind **** me. I'm starting training tomorrow for the two Spartan races I have coming up, I'm going to make posts of my training and my progress for training, I'm going to get better shape than I am now. I'm already in great shape from 5-6 days a week at the gym, but I don't have abs.

If I don't meet someone I think I might be able to feel the same way about, I might take her back. I'm making a list of things that she does that bother me about her, she's receptive to change if I tell her something bugs me. It's going to be on my terms If we get back together.

You don't care that she is mindf/cking you? Usually guys don't make threads on sosuave if they don't care. If you didn't care why make the thread?

 

[Weaver]

ex is stocking [sic] me on Facebook

I was expecting an S&M story. Would have been better than the blather of male (?) feminists, cuckold fetishists and their big spoon white knights.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Willard,
If you get it on with a nice Asian Girl,you will never go back to the Western Women!

 

[Willard]

I didn't think of that, she's from Korea, lives in Toronto. Staying with a girlfriend in Florida. She wants to move permanently to Florida. Seems really nice, we were laughing a lot on the phone. The ex is Asian, from the Philippines. but mostly grew up in the states. She is very wealthy, and I was planning on moving into her multimillion dollar house, another reason I want her back. We are going to talk in a couple of weeks, to see how we feel about the relationship, and If we want to get back together. That's why her checking out what I'm doing on Facebook makes me feel good. I'm not really counting on getting back with her, but it really is what I want. If we do get back, we are going to get married pretty soon.

 

[LiveFreeX]

You are an idiot... is this site just attracting nut jobs or something? Has anyone actually read the DJ bible or any of the articles, I'm pretty sure it explicity says not to 'get your ex back'. If she is very wealthy than her ex is SUPER wealthy. I'm guessing you are a white dude, and if thats the case, she's probably not into marrying you.

We are going to talk in a couple of weeks, to see how we feel about the relationship, and If we want to get back together.

And you want to marry this chick? Are you nuts...

we've been no contact since Wednesday, I'm not sure how long she will last before she tries to contact me.

I have a date with a really Asian girl on Sunday, 39 no kids, not much of an accent, Masters degree, shes an hour away, but I don't really mind. I hope I like her, that way I can just forget about the ex.

Red Flag, Red Flag, Red Flag, Red Flag, Red Flag

yes you are.

 

[amoka]

Last night and tonight when I go on Facebook, her and her friend are both online, a couple of minutes later they both disappear. they must be on the phone with each checking out to see if I'm posting other women.

Really? Is that what YOU would like her to do?

I told her I was going to disable my Facebook after we broke up instead of de-friending her and deleting her photos. She talked me into keeping it up because it is important to me.

Really? She talked YOU into keeping YOUR facebook account that YOU wanted to deactivate?

I think it's cute she is doing this

There you go. Just as I thought.

we've been no contact since Wednesday, I'm not sure how long she will last before she tries to contact me.

I know my phone is on--with the volume set high but never heard any calls from her. Let me check the phone again to see if there is any missed calls. Zero. Zip. Nada. It is just a dream.

I have a date with a really Asian girl on Sunday, 39 no kids, not much of an accent, Masters degree,

A 39 years old woman with no kids could be problematic unless of course you don't want kids later on in the future...and more importantly, you don't foresee any future with her.

shes an hour away, but I don't really mind.

It seems you are just looking for a rebound. I suggest you go back to the basics by reading or re-reading the DJ bible.

I hope I like her, that way I can just forget about the ex.

See my above comments.

 

[Married Buried]

OP why did you break up in the first place? You know what women do when they leave you right? They ride other c0cks.

 

[Willard]

Thank you for the great advice. We said our final goodbye by text and then emails. I was in love with her, So I'm hurting a little bit. I ended up speaking to a girl I met on line for 3 hours and 15 minutes, 44 no kids, can't have them. I don't know if anything will come of it. But it sure made me feel a lot better.

I might take some time by myself unless the online one works out. I thought I was pretty good with woman, and I was, this one really made me revert to being a AFC, I appreciate the kick in the ass.

I deleted her pics from my phone along with her number.

 

[amoka]

Thank you for the great advice. We said our final goodbye by text and then emails. I was in love with her, So I'm hurting a little bit. I ended up speaking to a girl I met on line for 3 hours and 15 minutes, 44 no kids, can't have them. I don't know if anything will come of it. But it sure made me feel a lot better.

I might take some time by myself unless the online one works out. I thought I was pretty good with woman, and I was, this one really made me revert to being a AFC, I appreciate the kick in the ass.

I deleted her pics from my phone along with her number.

I would also suggest you delete your facebook account. Trust me, it is all worth it. I have unplug from it since 2009. Give that a try.

 

[Willard]

I will delete it tonight, thanks again.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Willard,
Be patient with this Korean Girl,don't try ****y funny,she will not be amused,and just hug her don't try to kiss,Asians are very wary about that,also use a strong cologne,they find us on the nose!...Forget about your experience with Filipinas,they are very different to Mainland Asians!

 

[Willard]

Thanks Scaramouche, for the good advice.