Ex is pregnant...feeling the oneitis...

[TheWolfMan]

It could be that the parents are pissed that you got her pregnant, and she is just going along with it as not too upset them. I would do what someone else suggested and try and get her and her parents to sit down for 5 mins. somehow. Instead of begging for foregiveness, just be like "Listen, she's pregnant, I'm the father and you guys can't change that so I'm going to be in the baby's life whether you like it or not, might as well get used to the idea. I want to be in my child's life." or something along those lines. Also, I can't stress this enough: GET A DNA TEST whenever possible. A. The child will be yours, and you can use this as leverage to see your child. B. The child isn't yours and you dodge a bullet and can get on with your life.

 

[Fixmylife]

So...I left a note on her car Wednesday, basically saying call me, I would like an update. No response so far, and it made me feel better at first, but I would have expected her to at least send a text. It could be an icebreaker to go talk to her. I've just had a complete emotional block due to this situation and I'm having trouble doing anything. It just makes me so sick, at the point I felt like killing myself I knew I had to do something. I don't know what she expects from me, so maybe this is proof that she doesnt think it's mine. Either way it's always possible. I'm having a hard time surviving these months and I don't know if I can go three more. Should I talk to her at her work at this point? I really don't want to involve her parents.

 

[goundra]

be TOTALLY glad if you are left out of it, and go get a vasectomy, since you are obviously too stupid to stay safe any other way.