ex is leaving comments on friends and family facebook

[sadonomspa]

Been doing no contact. Everytime I want to call her I vent to my best friend. He told me she has been leaving comments on his page,his wife, and my brother to wish him happy birthday.

Wtf? Most of my friends deleted her, I can't be to mad at my friends because the friends she did write to never go on fb.

But what is up? She also messaged me via text wishing me a "happy new year I hope this year treats you great"

She speaks to me more now that I ignore her and she broke up w me.!

 

[youngmack]

Just looking for attention and to get her ego fed..Carry on with that no contact bro. Dont give in and forget about her

 

[HeadLightsOn]

Her hamster wheel is spinning quite nicely thank you. Don't put the brakes on that.

When I look back, going NC were some of the sweetest moments I've had. I'm still NC with Cluster B's from years ago. And that's just the way I like it.

You're doing fine.

 

[sadonomspa]

She's def cluster B. Takes the meds for it. Damn so I guess I should be flattered. Thank you guys so much.
So this stuff is more typical than we thought?

 

[sadonomspa]

For context, how long have you two been broken up?

Officially broken up for 3 weeks...

So its what they can't have that drives them wild. She was prescribed celexa for her episodes of mania.

 

[penkitten]

let her.
if she wants to get on facebook and write on every friend or family member's wall you have, let her. but do not reply. do not write any response or comment after her, as if you didn't see it.
first, this will make you look like the bigger person who is not disrespectful to an ex or to a friend's wall.
second, after a while, she will come off pathetic on her own accord.

if she writes on your wall, let her and don't respond. it will add a little social proof that chicks dig you even a month after a break up.

call it an experiment.

see what becomes of itself without you responding in any way.
you can always delete crap off your own wall if necessary.