Read about the breakup here for a better view of why this is confusing.
I went no contact for near 4 months.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=165543
She contacted me out of the blue about 3 weeks ago....she called and said "Did you just pass by on so and so street?" we talked on the phone for a good 30 minutes or so but I had to let her go because I was starting to feel sick missing her.
That same day she proceeded to call back 5 more times, and a few of those times she was almost begging me to come hangout with her.
It did not make SENSE. WHY? out of the blue, I was so taken aback that I did not hangout with her do to some sort of complication. Maybe she got pregnant and wants to pin it on me? THere are many possibilities....but after 4 months of not seeing/.hearing from me she does this! It was so bizarre that it scared me and rendered me to not go hangout with her.
The next day no calls or texts.....until today.....3 weeks later. She texted me around 11am saying "If you have time I have a box of your clothes".
I told her to throw them away or give them to salvation army, that I got new stuff and didn't need it. SHE INSISTED and basically twisted my arm as far as she could to get me to get the stuff from her....it's almost like her last ditch attempt at getting me to hangout.
And when we did talk on the phone 3 weeks ago she had SO MUCH to say. I couldn't shut her up, and she acted as if nothing happened between us.
Can somebody please possibly give me some idea of whats going on here?
I agreed to meet up with her sometime next week to get my stuff from her......but I know there is another motive other then that....there has to be, why would she be so insistent?
I told her I would contact her sometime next week to get my stuff....she said "Sounds like a plan" this was all through texts.
I may just not ever get a hold of her.....I worked hard to do no contact for so long and now this is the second time she is contacting me, and I told her boldy and bluntly to just throw the stuff away or give it to salvation army....its just CLOTHES.
Anybody? I need input....she has an agenda......did she realize what she lost after she realized I moved on? Or do you think she simply wants to give me my stuff.....stuff I told her over and over again to throw away or do as she pleases with because I am not interested in it.
I went no contact for near 4 months.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=165543
She contacted me out of the blue about 3 weeks ago....she called and said "Did you just pass by on so and so street?" we talked on the phone for a good 30 minutes or so but I had to let her go because I was starting to feel sick missing her.
That same day she proceeded to call back 5 more times, and a few of those times she was almost begging me to come hangout with her.
It did not make SENSE. WHY? out of the blue, I was so taken aback that I did not hangout with her do to some sort of complication. Maybe she got pregnant and wants to pin it on me? THere are many possibilities....but after 4 months of not seeing/.hearing from me she does this! It was so bizarre that it scared me and rendered me to not go hangout with her.
The next day no calls or texts.....until today.....3 weeks later. She texted me around 11am saying "If you have time I have a box of your clothes".
I told her to throw them away or give them to salvation army, that I got new stuff and didn't need it. SHE INSISTED and basically twisted my arm as far as she could to get me to get the stuff from her....it's almost like her last ditch attempt at getting me to hangout.
And when we did talk on the phone 3 weeks ago she had SO MUCH to say. I couldn't shut her up, and she acted as if nothing happened between us.
Can somebody please possibly give me some idea of whats going on here?
I agreed to meet up with her sometime next week to get my stuff from her......but I know there is another motive other then that....there has to be, why would she be so insistent?
I told her I would contact her sometime next week to get my stuff....she said "Sounds like a plan" this was all through texts.
I may just not ever get a hold of her.....I worked hard to do no contact for so long and now this is the second time she is contacting me, and I told her boldy and bluntly to just throw the stuff away or give it to salvation army....its just CLOTHES.
Anybody? I need input....she has an agenda......did she realize what she lost after she realized I moved on? Or do you think she simply wants to give me my stuff.....stuff I told her over and over again to throw away or do as she pleases with because I am not interested in it.
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