"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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my ex sends me a late happy birthday msg after no contact for 6 months ..before doing that she makes her friend call me and say happy birthday and to know if im traveling anywhere this summer the next day i get her msg...

I didn't reply because first its doesn't matter anymore and second i don't need to prove to anyone that im the "real man" or not a "little boy" by replying
but something in me still screams out if you seriously don't care anymore a thank you back at her isnt bad just out of decency ...does that mean im still not over her completely ?


whats your outlook of on this situation and would a confident man have the ignore thing on his artillery ??
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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yeah will here new guy has goofed up and she wants to cheat on him with you .. soo.. you will act cal,m and neutral and invite her over for drinks aND movie.. and you will F close with no deep convo about feeling or relationships at all.. you will make her into a sex buddy
 
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DonGorgon said:
yeah will here new guy has goofed up and she wants to cheat on him with you .. soo.. you will act cal,m and neutral and invite her over for drinks aND movie.. and you will F close with no deep convo about feeling or relationships at all.. you will make her into a sex buddy
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that friend of hers is her sisters boyfriend which was one of my best mates till everything got revealed with that crew and i cut them out of my life.


im not really interested in inviting such quality people in my life anymore but thanks for the suggestion
 
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khadd909 said:
something in me still screams out if you seriously don't care anymore a thank you back at her isnt bad just out of decency
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Well I wouldn't say anything just to be nice, but if you're telling us that you seriously don't care anymore then yes you can.

I sent a Happy Birthday text a girl I nexted just because a reminder popped up on my phone. I had zero expectations but she actually brought up getting together.

If you have no outcome dependence, do what you feel like doing.
 
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