Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I'm looking for suggestions on what to do with this situation.

Girls:
Ex (1)
Girl that I like (2)

Situation:
1 is my ex. 2 thinks I still have feelings for her, because I'm not talking much to my ex and my discussion with 2 over how i'm not talking to 1 prompted it. I was able to get myself out of it though the fact that i've been trying to fit work and school together (I woulda lost the first semester because of absenism) and how I just obtained a job within my job as computer tech for the entire building, along with pressing money issues, future, teaching others. I don't have a lot of time, so I have no desire to have to deal with 1's *****ing and complaining that she's out of the loop.

Problem I think:
I think that 2 will not budge because of how she thinks I still have feelings for 1, even after a year.

Solution I think:
I do not have the time to talk to 1, nor do I have any real desire to. I'm afraid that 2 will not take kindly to anything that I do to flirt/advance/etc.

Suggestions please? (it was short and sweet because I don't have the time to sit here and type it out gracefully)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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2 is insecure, you don't like one, so find a 3.

Just flirt with 2 anyway, if she doesn't like it what have you got to lose? And be paitient.. You can't expect an instant answer.
 
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