"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm looking for suggestions on what to do with this situation.

Girls:
Ex (1)
Girl that I like (2)

Situation:
1 is my ex. 2 thinks I still have feelings for her, because I'm not talking much to my ex and my discussion with 2 over how i'm not talking to 1 prompted it. I was able to get myself out of it though the fact that i've been trying to fit work and school together (I woulda lost the first semester because of absenism) and how I just obtained a job within my job as computer tech for the entire building, along with pressing money issues, future, teaching others. I don't have a lot of time, so I have no desire to have to deal with 1's *****ing and complaining that she's out of the loop.

Problem I think:
I think that 2 will not budge because of how she thinks I still have feelings for 1, even after a year.

Solution I think:
I do not have the time to talk to 1, nor do I have any real desire to. I'm afraid that 2 will not take kindly to anything that I do to flirt/advance/etc.

Suggestions please? (it was short and sweet because I don't have the time to sit here and type it out gracefully)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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2 is insecure, you don't like one, so find a 3.

Just flirt with 2 anyway, if she doesn't like it what have you got to lose? And be paitient.. You can't expect an instant answer.
 
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