"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ex Girlfriend wants me back!

E-Z Rider

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Originally posted by Porky
Because it's just high school. If it works out well, it will show him that there is such a thing as a second chance. If it doesn't work out, then he won't try it again next time. He isn't a dog, he won't get into bad habits and be unable to break them. Don't deny the man some poon!
This would make sense if he didn't already have a girlfriend...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Porky

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Tell me where I told him to break up with his girlfriend. He says he's considering getting together with this girl after things go sour with his girlfriend. I'm answering his question, and in his question his girlfriend isn't an issue.
 

HollowHorizon

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Nope.. I hate my ex she is a dumb hoe and she is trieng to ruien my relationship with my current girlfriend... She is a evil ***** and deservees to die...... She told my gf that i love her still
 
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