"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ex girlfriend thinks she cannot be replaced

PantyWhisperer

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Get used to it. There are plenty of unanswered things all around us. It's called life. When you mature enough you'll understand it.
Harsh but true - but it's a process, coming to that place. I know that I obsess over things like why did this or that happen. I have perhaps a female component in me that wants closure - if nothing else but as a survey of what I might consider changing about myself for the next relationship.
We all preach about self improvement, but when a woman ghosts you hard, you have no idea what it was that made it go south. Even finding out that it wasn't about you at all, has value.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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playa99

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When a relationship is done its done. Block her off all social media and move on with your life. You may be NC but you know she has another dude living with her.

I have no idea what any of my ex's are doing, I do not give a fvck. They are blocked off all social media in every way.

They will know what I'm up to due to the amount of mutual friends we had. Women love to talk.

You may feel better temporarily if she begs for you back, but it achieves nothing in reality. The pool has been pissed in. You are better off moving on to new improved women and internalizing the lessons you learnt in this relationship.
 
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