"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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J0sH

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Alright, so I had this girlfriend that I went out with for like 10 months, and it was a pretty good relationship. Towards the end though, I started to feel myself not liking her as much as I was before, and things started goin kinda bad. We broke up and how most relationships are we got back together like another 2 times until she finally moved on to another guy. I now have like 3 or 4 other girls that I am talking to, but I still want this girl back...

Is it because I have to see her with her new boyfriend everyday? I mean, if I didn't like her fully 100%, should I even waste my time comtemplating on this? she told me we still have a future together, and we have remained (distant) friends

What should I do if I want to get her back? or should I just move on because the same thing may happen again?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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blienk

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Just move on, I have a feeling you can do better.
 
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Garbury

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move on, you're only setting yourself up for more heartbreak. Just spend the time u would have spent thinking about getting back with her telling yourself its over for good and go on. Once its over, its over. Its like your favorite car getting completely totalled, you can work really hard to fix it, but it will never be the same, its better to just get a new car. Besides the new girls are more fun that the ex, remember you got tired of her first. What makes u think getting back together with her will fix any of that. Good luck with your new chicks.
 
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oakraiderz2

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Ive been where you are kinda. Why do you want her back so bad? Do you miss her or the relationship you two had? If you get back with her youre just prolonged the amount of time it all happens again. Realize you wont b with her forever so why get back with her? Its just a waste of time. When you move on then shell come back, just dont give in.
 
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