"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ex Girlfriend contacting me on Myspace

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Well, well... my ex is contactng me on mypace and wants to be my friend. She has a B/F and i have a G/f. Last thing that happened to us was, i kicked her out of my house and life because she gave me 4 years of pure hell but why in the world would she want to be my "friend" now after all she put me through? The other day she IMs me on AIM and talks all friendly so i was about to sign off and said:

ME: Im about to lay down, if you really wanna talk then it would have to be on the phone because im tired of sitting here.

HER: NO, i do not want to talk to you on the phone

ME: Okay, Then goodnight.

HER: Im not going to bed, Im going to watch TV with my B/F.

ME: *Signed off*

What do you guys think? Im debating on saying something mean because of the huge b!tch she is or should i ignore her?
What a Freakin Cvnt, i swear.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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backbreaker said:
how old are you? 19?
Why? Backbreaker, you gonna flame me? lol j/k bro but Nah im 24
 

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just disregard it and dont reply back to her if you dont want to speak to her.
simple as that.
if you end up running into her and she says something, say "oh i havent had time to say hey back, ive been really busy."
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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