"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ex Girlfriend contacting me on Myspace

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Well, well... my ex is contactng me on mypace and wants to be my friend. She has a B/F and i have a G/f. Last thing that happened to us was, i kicked her out of my house and life because she gave me 4 years of pure hell but why in the world would she want to be my "friend" now after all she put me through? The other day she IMs me on AIM and talks all friendly so i was about to sign off and said:

ME: Im about to lay down, if you really wanna talk then it would have to be on the phone because im tired of sitting here.

HER: NO, i do not want to talk to you on the phone

ME: Okay, Then goodnight.

HER: Im not going to bed, Im going to watch TV with my B/F.

ME: *Signed off*

What do you guys think? Im debating on saying something mean because of the huge b!tch she is or should i ignore her?
What a Freakin Cvnt, i swear.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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backbreaker said:
how old are you? 19?
Why? Backbreaker, you gonna flame me? lol j/k bro but Nah im 24
 

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just disregard it and dont reply back to her if you dont want to speak to her.
simple as that.
if you end up running into her and she says something, say "oh i havent had time to say hey back, ive been really busy."
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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