"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ex girlfriend calls, Should i call back?

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Venom01

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Hey,

I broke up with my ex-gf about 6 months ago. It was a 5 year relationship. We haven't spoken since. She first texted me asking how things were and I texted back saying everything is cool and I hope everything was cool with her (very cold, and short).

She ended up calling me shortly after that (about an hour) and i didnt pick up. She left a msg saying that she should have called in the first place and she wanted to know how i was doing and if everything is ok.

Should I call? I dont want to give her false hope but I feel that I should at least call.


P.S. My game is excellent - meet new girls everyday, and very happy with the single life. However I don't want to hurt my ex's feelings in anyway, or be looked at as the bad guy.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ignoring it would be best. I wouldn't even respond to the text messages.

Unless you want to get back together with her and the reason you broke up with her isn't there anymore then I would just let it go. You already responded to her text message.

Why did you break up with her?
 
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Don't over think it. Call her, tell her exactly what you said above and that's it. You broke up with her so she might be calling to see if you're still interested, if you found someone else, or neither.

Either way, make your intentions clear.
 
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I broke up with her because she wanted to get married and settle down in 2 years, and i said i needed more time. I started to think logically if i wanted to be in the relationship and i started to have doubts, so i thought it would be best if i broke it up with her now while shes still young (shes 5 years older then me. She is 28). I didnt want to stay with her for another 2 years and then have doubts.
 
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