"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ex Girlfriend At New Years Party

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thegoodstuff

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Recent break up. It's only been a month of no contact.

Relationship has been for almost 4 years, and it was very intimate. I'm not sure if I'm ready to do this. Same friends, so I'm getting screwed here.

Should I avoid this? Or go and have an awkward new years?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I personally would just go anyways, say hello and maybe get a little small talk in (to avoid awkwardness), then get completely hammered. Better to have fun playing pong wasted with your friends, completely unaware of the ex, rather than worry about awkwardness and all that crap
 
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Its prob better that you don't get wasted in front of an ex you had to go NC with so be glad you don't drink. Just have fun, say hi and leave it at that.
 
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Hire an escort or get a really hot friend to go and tell her to play it up to the max. Best revenge is a live well, and there's no better way than to get another girlfriend that's even hotter, younger, and more successful. If she's just hotter that alone can royally mess with her head.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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thegoodstuff said:
Recent break up. It's only been a month of no contact.

Relationship has been for almost 4 years, and it was very intimate. I'm not sure if I'm ready to do this. Same friends, so I'm getting screwed here.

Should I avoid this? Or go and have an awkward new years?
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If you DO go, you can keep her as an option to get laid. that'd be better than watching some other dude take her out the door.
 
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