PuertoRican_Lover
Banned
Hahahaha, this statement coming from a guy(?) callled "sugarfoot" and whose Sig is "Tootles"
- HOMO!!!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
ex-girlfriend .... 6 years after
- Thread starter samaiel
- Start date
- HOMO!!!"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Mr.Style
Don Juan
Why would he feel bad if it turns out she's flattered he apologised?
ThunderMaverick
Master Don Juan
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Everyone here: you don't know what'll happen if he calls.
Samaiel, If you think it's best you call to clear your conscience, then do it.
There's no train here. You've got a million choices. Do what you think is best if you feel you've grown up.
Samaiel, If you think it's best you call to clear your conscience, then do it.
There's no train here. You've got a million choices. Do what you think is best if you feel you've grown up.
aftershock
Master Don Juan
He will feel OK for a few minutes then start to think "OMG I WANT HER BACK I HAVE A CHANCE" and it will screw with his head. It will emotionally f**k him up. Then he'll start acting AFC, get oneitis etc...Originally posted by Mr.Style
Why would he feel bad if it turns out she's flattered he apologised?
Just hearing someones voice if he is that mad about her will screw him up.
Leave it bro. It's for the best.
flyinshark
Senior Don Juan
Samaiel, why are u so nervous about calling her? Think WELL!
Is it because you still feel something for her when thinking about her?
Or is it fear of the ridicule of the situation, or simply of apologising in general?
If it's the 1st one, then those guys who said not to call her are right. You may start having oneitis and you will feel miserable.
Decide why EXACTLY you want to call her. And don't lie to yourself, as some of us tend to do that!
Calling her because deep down you wanna have another shot at her would be a bad choice, in my opinion. She had 6 years in which the image of you being a bastard had time to get printed very nicely in her memory.
The only acceptable reason to call her would be to do it as a test to see how strong you are, because it takes courage to call and apologise, especially after all this time. Or, like i mentioned before, to erase the guilt and remorse you feel inside. It could indeed make you feel better, assuming she doesnt curse at you and hang up on you when you call her...
Good luck man. Tell us what you decided, and don't feel bad about your choice. The worst thing to do would be to remain undecided. Think about it for a bit, and then make a choice!
Is it because you still feel something for her when thinking about her?
Or is it fear of the ridicule of the situation, or simply of apologising in general?
If it's the 1st one, then those guys who said not to call her are right. You may start having oneitis and you will feel miserable.
Decide why EXACTLY you want to call her. And don't lie to yourself, as some of us tend to do that!
Calling her because deep down you wanna have another shot at her would be a bad choice, in my opinion. She had 6 years in which the image of you being a bastard had time to get printed very nicely in her memory.
The only acceptable reason to call her would be to do it as a test to see how strong you are, because it takes courage to call and apologise, especially after all this time. Or, like i mentioned before, to erase the guilt and remorse you feel inside. It could indeed make you feel better, assuming she doesnt curse at you and hang up on you when you call her...
Good luck man. Tell us what you decided, and don't feel bad about your choice. The worst thing to do would be to remain undecided. Think about it for a bit, and then make a choice!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
hi guys
thank you so much for your advise.
this last 2 days, i did a lot of thinking. i do believe the best think to do is call her.
so, tomorrow after work, i will dial those 9 numbers and will get in touch in her. im nervous because its been a long time but specially i wasnt right to her. i did and said a lot of crap, and dont know what she will think of this... if she pick's up, i will tell her to meet me. if she says no, at least i try. and if she says yes, good. i will meet her and talk.
this is something i need to do. i dont feel good about myself and need to close this charter of my life.
afterwards, i will tell you how it went.
thank you
cheers.
thank you so much for your advise.
this last 2 days, i did a lot of thinking. i do believe the best think to do is call her.
so, tomorrow after work, i will dial those 9 numbers and will get in touch in her. im nervous because its been a long time but specially i wasnt right to her. i did and said a lot of crap, and dont know what she will think of this... if she pick's up, i will tell her to meet me. if she says no, at least i try. and if she says yes, good. i will meet her and talk.
this is something i need to do. i dont feel good about myself and need to close this charter of my life.
afterwards, i will tell you how it went.
thank you
cheers.