Ex-girl is making a move... Need advice

[fineliner]

The only reason I care is because she was the best one I've been with and is looking just great. She dumped me when I was AFC about 2 years ago and quickly got into another relationship. She is still dating that guy, but I have made HUGE personal progress with dealing with women, my school and my looks. I can just tell he is no where the quality of guy that I have become. She intitiated contact and we've been talking lately. We've got together once, but I haven't seen any real action and the we've only talked in a sexual manner one night after alot of drinks.

Long story short, I decided to say **** it and quit answering her text messages. Very cold, but I'm not her boyfriend or getting any... I can tell she is very attracted to me (she's nervous around me, her text msgs do not display confidence, etc) Now, she has not been on messenger or texted me in a week, which I am sure is her way to play off my rejection

Is this the right thing to do? I mean, last time she messed me up after breaking up with me, but on the other hand I could be missing out on someone great. PLEASE ADVICE

 

[kickureface]

most ppl say no, but i was in a similar situation and went for it. it went well. the thing is i THOUGHT i was happy single, but now i found out i wasn't truly internally happy. nevertheless, it was a good experience.

 

[j0n024]

"Is this the right thing to do? I mean, last time she messed me up after breaking up with me, but on the other hand I could be missing out on someone great"

You just contradicted yourself.....you said last time she "Messed," you up and then you said you could be missing out on someone "Great!" LOL get your story straight dude, you were an AFC back then and she left you plain and simple and she didnt turn around once , now your thinking about trying to get back with her.....lol.

I say do whatever you want it's your life but if you were a DJ like you say then you should know that you DESERVE better then what she has done to you in the past but if you cant look past that then that's your fault for falling back in the same boat.

 

[WesCottII]

Fffffff.

You say you've come on leaps and bounds with women? So what're bothered about this tramp for? Retire her and get some new women, who are worth your time.

 

[Mavrick]

Make her squirm. If she likes you as much as you say, then she'll try again. Flake on her a couple of times then take her out and get her wanting you mare. Then dump her.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Here is reality... She dumps you for another guy. Starts fvcking him then, see's how much you improved and what a better catch you are now. So, she thinks she can manipulate you into taking her back.

Don't talk to her and don't take her back. If you have IMPROVED soo much like you say. You shouldn't have a problem sleeping with the other fishes!

Or like Mavrick said; take her on some dates then, dump her. But, I would atleast fvck her a few times...

 

[fineliner]

woooo great advice... sometimes you just need it pounded into your head even though you already know what to do.

 

[fineliner]

also, I can tell she is avoiding me now. The last text really showed how ga ga she was about me and I just gave her the cold shoulder.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

All i can say is if you wanna get her , play hard and i mean HARD to get .

Im talking from experience . If she gets you easy , you lost you're value .

Valuable things come difficult .

 

[PectoralisMajor]

yep, whatever you do, DONT text her back first. It will be driving her crazy, trust me. She will be in touch.....