"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ex Gf turned to FwB, Now its over?

Krueg

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Hey DJ's, Looking for some opinions or a swift kick in the @ss...

Was dating this girl for six months, she broke things off with me in the beginning of March. But for the first month we were "friends with benefits", basically still hung out and had sex on the weekends. But, the last month and a half she stopped inviting me over and I found out she was seeing her Ex again. She tried down playing it, like their just friends.. Yea right.

So after going NC for lil awhile she called me last week and said she missed me and wanted to get together or hang out soon. So I sent her a txt msg last friday - told her I was available but never heard back from her. Then a couple days later she gave me some lame excuse but didnt counter-offer.. Now she's trying to call and txt me again today, wanting to know how Im doing or whatever but isnt asking me to hang out.

Personally I dont want her back as far as a relationship. But I wouldnt mind being FWB' though it seems like she's just playing games. I dont know if it would be worth it or not. I mean yesterday I met this chick and got her number. Im planning on calling her Tuesday and ask her out Friday night.

Should I keep the Ex around as a possible fvck buddy or just say forget her and keep dating & meeting others?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Billtx49

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Forget her, you have been reclassified as an orbiter or friend zoned at best, and that will only last as long as she wants it to.
NC time
 
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Krueg

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I'd say your right about the "Friend Zone".. I mean if she still wanted to hook-up or something I think she'd come out and say it. I'm not interested in small talk. Guess I'll just keep ignoring her and hopefully she'll take the hint. On to the next one(s)
 
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