Last Man Standing
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You should be totured for giving such counsel!!SmokeX said:
Because a death sentence is too kind!SmokeX said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Ex GF sleeping in my bed..
- Thread starter downfallofdisbelief
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
SmokeX
Don Juan
But I thought I was giving him some advice he can use to lay her :|Last Man Standing said:You should be totured for giving such counsel!!
Because a death sentence is too kind!
Let me clue in in on something there 18 year old Smokey:SmokeX said:
You do not EVER have the upper hand by letting a bytch move in with you. You lose everything. Then, when you break up, you lose even more. DO NOT EVER advise someone to do this. You will learn the hard way someday, until then, keep your yap shut about it.
Last Man Standing
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Why move in? So that he can get even more emotionally attached so that she can leave again and then he'll have suicidal thoughts!SmokeX said:
You don't need to give a hor free room and board to lay her!
SmokeX
Don Juan
Haha My bad guys. LoL I feel like an idiot here I thought I was helping him out, instead I was gonna get him screw over :| Suicidal thoughts are bad too :|
I just thought I was helpin' lol
Smoke
I just thought I was helpin' lol
Smoke
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
downfallofdisbelief
Don Juan
ok i got some time to read your responses, thanks for the replies everyone..
I forgot to mention that the other guy doesn't live in the state she moved back to (montana), he did, but he moved to michigan, sometime after she moved back here.
anyways,
yea, I do realize that i over-analized the situation a bit, I can sure as hell admit that, considering the events of the other night..
But as for her moving back to montana yesterday, she doesn't have any family here except for her broke brother/sister-in-law, so she really doesn't have much of a choice at the moment except to move back to her parents in montana. It's not really like I could prevent that, and I definitely dont need her living with me lol. But that whole situation is another really long story.
anyways, my goal wasn't to get laid, although thats still fun and all.. I do admit that I am way too emotionally crippled when it comes to her. I really do believe that I loved her at the time we were together, and I can't help that I felt that way. We had a strong connection during our relationship that was cut short over neutral terms, which is why I think I'm still stuck talking about this girl. Yes i was a bit heated about the other guy, but that wasn't the reason why I was sad over it all.
I guess it's just hard because of the fact that the relationship didn't end due to a problem between us. And now that I know she's still attracted to me, it just makes things even more complicated, emotionally. I mean, how can I get over someone, when I know they still have at least some feelings for me, yet they live in another state now and I probably won't see them for a while? I know I shouldn't even hang myself up on this, but does anyone here honestly understand where I'm coming from?
I know i'm pussing out this whole thing, I usually can hold myself together when it comes to women/relationships, but i guess that's why i'm posting on here about it..
I forgot to mention that the other guy doesn't live in the state she moved back to (montana), he did, but he moved to michigan, sometime after she moved back here.
anyways,
yea, I do realize that i over-analized the situation a bit, I can sure as hell admit that, considering the events of the other night..
But as for her moving back to montana yesterday, she doesn't have any family here except for her broke brother/sister-in-law, so she really doesn't have much of a choice at the moment except to move back to her parents in montana. It's not really like I could prevent that, and I definitely dont need her living with me lol. But that whole situation is another really long story.
anyways, my goal wasn't to get laid, although thats still fun and all.. I do admit that I am way too emotionally crippled when it comes to her. I really do believe that I loved her at the time we were together, and I can't help that I felt that way. We had a strong connection during our relationship that was cut short over neutral terms, which is why I think I'm still stuck talking about this girl. Yes i was a bit heated about the other guy, but that wasn't the reason why I was sad over it all.
I guess it's just hard because of the fact that the relationship didn't end due to a problem between us. And now that I know she's still attracted to me, it just makes things even more complicated, emotionally. I mean, how can I get over someone, when I know they still have at least some feelings for me, yet they live in another state now and I probably won't see them for a while? I know I shouldn't even hang myself up on this, but does anyone here honestly understand where I'm coming from?
I know i'm pussing out this whole thing, I usually can hold myself together when it comes to women/relationships, but i guess that's why i'm posting on here about it..