Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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DJDamage, so Husband = a type of AFC? What's the difference between a DJ and a bad boy? So, since girls love this why do they complain? I do see where you are coming from? I used to advice a female friend of mine and after a while she started taking it too personally like I don't like her even when all I was trying to do was rub minds. After a while I decided not to advice her anymore cos I figured she knows what to do besides I'm in need of saving myself. I don't save women anymore.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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jafyk said:
DJDamage, so Husband = a type of AFC? .

No.

But most husbands today have come from an AFC mindest and have a misrable marriage as a result. Those men do not have the experience to deal with women and often the sh1t ends up hitting the fan during the marriage phase.

How many married people do you know today that are in a happy marriage and the husband is the head of the family? You will probably have trouble naming 3.

jafyk said:
What's the difference between a DJ and a bad boy?
There is not much of a difference but a DJ stays away from crime but keeps the mystery, danger and masculinty of the bad boy which causes women to wet their pants.

jafyk said:
So, since girls love this why do they complain?
They complain because the badboy is a free like a bird and does whatever the hell he wants. He has options and cannot be controlled so it frustrates the hell out of them when he won't submit but rather chooses to explore his options.

As soon as they are able to capture that bird and put it in the cage then its game over for the badboy and he ends up losing his luster. Many badboys have ended up being "domisticated" by women and completly transformed 180 degrees to an AFC. You might guess what happens next, they dump the AFC and go chase after another badboy.
 

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jmchavz said:
Ohh and dude... we all KNOW that you DIDNT break it off with her first... Remeber, women always leave first....

dude, 'women always leave first'? is this your experience or just something you are quoting? In my experience I have often been the one to leave.
 
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