Ex GF problem

[Bubs]

Guys,
gurls do my hed in! I need sum advice on how to handle my ex girlfriend.
We broke up a while ago and now we're both okay with things cuz lifes to short to throw people out ya life. So anyway, she found a new guy who she liked, we'll call him Lyndon(cuz thats his name)....n while she was gettin close i thought id leave her to it...so i went away for 2 wks, came bak home and she rang to meet me up.
So then

Friday she slept at my house - told me bout her n lyndons condom split n had 2 have afta mornin pill. We slept in same bed anyway without cuddles cuz we were okay with it
Saturday - just usual talking, laughin etc
Sunday - play fightin, almost led 2 sex even though she with her new guy.BUt i stopped it and she cried thinkin she was a slut. N i told her u would of been a slut if i let you go through with it, just save the sex for Lyndon. Not becuz i was being soft, but i wasnt interested because we're best friends now and im comfortable with it.
Monday - Lyndon messaged her saying he has sum1 else now...so ehe's been used by him pretty much. She slept at mine that night and cuddled up to me.

Now though, how do i help her out without coming across as the awkward ex boyfriend? We get on great - talkin,play fightin,huggin...i jus dnt kno how to help her out becuz she spent an hour tlkin to Lyndons friends bout how much he hurt her, but didnt want to talk about it with me???
Anyway, shud i just leave her to it and not take it personal she doesnt feel comfortable tlkin to me about it and just act normal?

A thankyou!

 

[DJ_Dork]

man, i don't understand why people hook up as friends with their ex's. it's on you bro.

 

[Young Rome]

I am going through something like this except the sex. If you still like your ex don't play games be with her.


If you don't leave her alone, there is a reason she is your ex.

If you want to use her as a bootycall...there might be some consequences.

It's your life!

 

[Hollowpoint]

Just go fvck you dumbass.

And maybe learn some English you Brit.

 

[Bubs]

Thanks guys for the real replies. I was expectin loads of “just fvck her dammit” lol. I don’t know what I want with her yet. The whole reason we broke up was because she was scared of long term relationship so she needed a break or suggested an open relationship. I got too insecure n paranoid though so we both suggested best off as friends.

Anyway I’ll take your advice and just back off a bit and I’ll see how it goes. She knows where I am.

Thanx

 

[squirrels]

It's OK to want to f--k her, it's OK to want to be "just friends" with her. But stop being her "cuddle buddy," the guy she comes to when she wants validation. Because it sounds like that's what she's doing...when she has problems with her guy she comes back to you and sleeps in your bed and cuddles with you and all to prove to herself that she's still worthwhile...and you always take her back for some reason.

Be willing to offer her a shoulder, but that goofy crap's gotta stop.