"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ex gf keeps calling

Firestar786

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As title says.
I dump her- a day or two later she keeps calling non stop.
I simply do not like her anymore and now feel like I have to call the police for harassment charges the woman doesn't give up.

Any other advice on how I can get rid of her as I've genuinely had enough of her demands, expectations, drama and headache.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MAYALL

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How hard is it to block her number and all forms of social media?
 

Firestar786

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She calls on a private/unknown number

She then shows up to my house unannounced also

Hence the police option
 

G_Govan

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Give her a warning. If she persists go to the police.
 

Infern0

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How did you dump her?

Were you a **** about it? Did you do it over text like a coward or did you do it face to face in a decent way like a man?

She's liable to be upset, your reaction makes you seem like a bit of a **** tbh
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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