Ex GF is back in contact

[bobafatt]

About 6 months when we split she was still in contact with me - i didnt like it and told her that in a nice way to leave me alone, that i wasnt interested in being her friend and that if we kept in contact we would only end up resenting eachother.

Fast forward to last month - she phones me around 1am to tell me how much she misses me, loves me and wants to see me bla bla bla. I kept my contact brief and didnt reply to much of her contact but she still contacted me wanting to meet.

Honestly its got to the point now where ive had enough - shes blocked on all social media but i still get contact by text - I need advice on wether i just keep ignoring her or do i just tell her again that im not interested in meeting her to ''catch up'' if i dont do this then the text talk will continue and i cant be dealing with it.

I dont trust her as far as i can throw her, To her i am a second option/back-up. She has disrespected me in the past and there is now way back for us.

I want to handle this in a way that i have the power but maturely. First break-up ive been through and i know there is tons of advice on here. Guess i could do with some tough love off you guys!

 

[Tictac]

If you're not interested in seeing her (sounds like the right call), tell her again you don't want anything with her and then block her on your phone. You've told her to leave you alone. If she can't manage that, help her manage it.

 

[CMNILS87]

Your avatar name is bobafatt. Like the Star Wars bounty hunter?? That's easy, you went searching for bounties and traded the ***** into Jabba the Hutt. Now you're out chasing mythical hot "force" creatures that may or may not exist. You have no time for bounties thAt you turned in already. Only time for new booty that you can claim.

 

[bobafatt]

Your avatar name is bobafatt. Like the Star Wars bounty hunter?? That's easy, you went searching for bounties and traded the ***** into Jabba the Hutt. Now you're out chasing mythical hot "force" creatures that may or may not exist. You have no time for bounties thAt you turned in already. Only time for new booty that you can claim.

haha! ''The galaxys a dangerous place@@

 

[El Payaso]

Block her texts and calls...

 

[djthiago1]

Payaso knows. Block her.

 

[dude99]

If you have told her to leave you alone over and over and she still won't then you have created the ultimate challenge for her. Whst you do is ask her to meet you at a restaurant or public place and keep no showing on her. Offer no reason for the no show. Just schedule another outing with her. No show again. After about 2 or 3 of these she will get the message.

 

[Tamura]

I would just ignore her after once telling her you don't wish contact anymore and block if necessary, if she is not completely dense the messages will subside.

 

[Alvafe]

I would open a new one on her for calling on that time first thing.

just block her on everything and keep ignoring her, if she shows up at your home call the cops