"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ex-gf is AW+Recent Contact, bang or no

itishe

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I'm not sure what the point of this post is but I'm pretty drunk on whisky and felt like posting.

Let me open with a few facts, or maybe justg one:


I have a GF, I'm going to college and plan to let things fall apart naturally.

I'm getting tired of sex with said GF so I almost feel like cheating.

Why not break up with Gf? Well she'd cry for 10 years.


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My ex girlfriend before this one was in my mind a bit of a skank/attention ***** even though she tries to cover it up. She's one of those chicks who posts pictures from every party she goes too+ random pictures of every second on Myspace via webcam.

So we have an AW girlfriend who may of ****ed quite a few guys while at college and I want a change of poonany. Me wanting new poonany to the point I may cheat on my current GF who I have no feelings for anyumore.

Pass or go?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what those "AW" in "AW girlfriend " stand for?
 

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Pass.

AW's are STD factories and in general not worthy of a DJ's time and effort which yes even sex counts as.

Jafyk AW stands for attention wh0re and most chicks referred to as that are suffering from Borderline or Histrionic Personality Disorder.
 

itishe

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Yeah I'm realizing more and more I shouldn't bang this ***** but for some reason I'm always magnitized to her whenever she comes to town. It's so damn weird, she's a raging alcholic and not even that attractive too boot, maybe it's just the alure of new ***** that is making me turn into a sucker for used goods.
 

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KrontollerX, man this is scary. You could totally be right about this Histrionic disorder thing. My ex was acting so strange. She'd come over we'd get it on. lay to sleep then she'd be crying anf then go to the living room and I'd ask what's wrong and she won't tell me anything then she'd be asking herself "what am I doing?" the ironic thing is that she was really good in bed. Initially when we started she touched me too much. It made me uncomfortable. I didn't know if I should be flattered cos we talk about Kino but the touch was a lot than I was used to.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Wait.....let me get this straight.

You are bored of your old CURRENT girlfriend and want some new vertical smile's yet you wanna fvck your OLD ex.......wow.

I agree with Kontrol dont get back with the AW.....but knowing most people you VVILL and then ask how to get her back in a couple of days.
 
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