"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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trd323

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Well, my GF and I took a break which was mutual. I still hang out with her and her friend that I find attractive. Now how could I make this work with my GF's friend without being a jerk.

I already see signs of attraction from her. There is a lot of KINO and eye contact, and sexual innuendos.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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PVSSY-EATER

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just stay persistant.

If you already are getting your kino in, and she does not see you as a desperate AFC, then all you need to do now is get her alone and you can whack that azz. Just try to set up something with her and her friend or you and her, and get to the place where it is just you and her and BAM. You got me.
 

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if you expect any good advice on this then you really need to elaborate on some things. How long were you together, how long have they been friends, how long have you known the friend, how did you come to this break......I mean if you are trying to hook up with your ex of 5yrs. best friend since kindergarten the situation is a lot different than if you are working a friend of a girl who you dated for 2 weeks. In all honesty I think your best bet would most likely be to stop hanging out with you ex and meet new girls.
 

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Oh well.. your ex's friend knows the possible consequence of hooking up with you. Do what you want. Kino. Isolate. Up the kino. Get some.
 

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I bet if you retreat from both girls, the other one will want you more anyways. Don't do anything f***ed up to the ex, though, because you don't want her ruining things with the friend.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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gargamel

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It all depends on your X.. I have an ex that always sets me up with her hot friends.. But she is an exeption - probably the coolest girl on the planet.. If your ex is envyous by nature... don't go there - you will unleash the three-headed beast. Try probing how the ex feels about you dating at all (difficult). And look carefully how the X reacts to you openly flirting w/ her friend..

You are always left with one more option:
try suggesting a menage-a-trois! :p

GL HF!
 
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