"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ex Gf Friend- Getting Her!

LegendBoy

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Ok as much as I still like my ex I broke up and going to tune her best friend who happens to be of the same religion I am. A positive.

Now we exchange messages, talk on msn and phone. When I jokingly asked to go over her house. She said i can't i said why she said because if my ex found she would get angry at her and me.

I think thats the only thing holding this back. What are some things I can say or do. To make her not care about that factor and come to me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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john paul

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This is a hard one.
It comes down to what she wants more, her friendship or you, because I doubt your ex will be fine with her seeing you and this girl realises that.
 

WC2

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Don't be too forceful. When you see her, make sure you aren't serious and very playful. Eventually, if she is attracted to you, things will happen. If she is a VERY good friend, she will tell you how much she really wants to, but she can't. From there, you might be able to do some maneuvering, but probably not.
 
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