"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ex gf ... bit of a shock!

tony-montana

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so i kept getting txt messages from her like hello and i ignored it but she txt me again today so i decided to reply... and my oh my has she changed... i mean woah. we were together about 3 years ago.. wasn't a long relationship at all though and she was a virgin. she was depressed and shy and quiet. i hated it. we ended up splitting (i almost fuked her but i didn't wanna force it on her) - anyway when she called me after i replied to the txt message she was going on and on like a parrot... i was like "WOAH WTF is this the same girl?" apparently she's been going to clubs, bars, drinking alcohol (she never used to drink) and the big part... FUKING. she told me straight out "i fuked her bf. sh!t happens. he hit on to me." i probably am a bit jealous that she lost her virginity to someone else instead of me. and i do feel really weird talking to her because she's so different.

should i keep talking to her? she sounds very interested and asks me to catch up with her :S - i actually used to really like her but now she seems to of become one of the girls i hate. any suggestions?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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tony-montana said:
so i kept getting txt messages from her like hello and i ignored it but she txt me again today so i decided to reply... and my oh my has she changed... i mean woah. we were together about 3 years ago.. wasn't a long relationship at all though and she was a virgin. she was depressed and shy and quiet. i hated it. we ended up splitting (i almost fuked her but i didn't wanna force it on her) - anyway when she called me after i replied to the txt message she was going on and on like a parrot... i was like "WOAH WTF is this the same girl?" apparently she's been going to clubs, bars, drinking alcohol (she never used to drink) and the big part... FUKING. she told me straight out "i fuked her bf. sh!t happens. he hit on to me." i probably am a bit jealous that she lost her virginity to someone else instead of me. and i do feel really weird talking to her because she's so different.

should i keep talking to her? she sounds very interested and asks me to catch up with her :S - i actually used to really like her but now she seems to of become one of the girls i hate. any suggestions?
Suggestion as follows:

Text her ask her to meet you somewhere....
Talk a bit get your kino going... ask to get drunk
Then fvck her :)
 

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Slick101 said:
Suggestion as follows:

Text her ask her to meet you somewhere....
Talk a bit get your kino going... ask to get drunk
Then fvck her IN THE AZZ:)
Good suggestion. Just one minor change.....:p
 

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"i actually used to really like her but now she seems to of become one of the girls i hate. any suggestions?"

Nothing that being on the business end of your d!ck won't cure.

Pound her for great justice!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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She's being a attention hor to you. She's pretty much saying she opened her legs to every other guy but you!!! :crackup: Why bother with her???
 

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ehh if you feel like it's worth it go for it if not then don't....she sounds like she horrored it up after she broke up with you and now wants to spread her legs for any guy she can find even if that includes the old ex (you)....
 
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Every hor was once a virgin!
 

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Set up a date, try to fvck her - don't let her string it out and keep you hanging on over a period of time (she already talked about how she's been putting it about on the phone).

If she won't fvck you, she is rubbing in your face in what you "missed out on". If that happens drop her like a hot rock. As for her seeming to be "the kind of girl you don't like" - you don't have to have a relationship here, just a screw!
 

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so i kept getting txt messages from her like hello and i ignored it but she txt me again today so i decided to reply... and my oh my has she changed... i mean woah. we were together about 3 years ago.. wasn't a long relationship at all though and she was a virgin. she was depressed and shy and quiet. i hated it. we ended up splitting (i almost fuked her but i didn't wanna force it on her) - anyway when she called me after i replied to the txt message she was going on and on like a parrot... i was like "WOAH WTF is this the same girl?" apparently she's been going to clubs, bars, drinking alcohol (she never used to drink) and the big part... FUKING. she told me straight out "i fuked her bf. sh!t happens. he hit on to me." i probably am a bit jealous that she lost her virginity to someone else instead of me. and i do feel really weird talking to her because she's so different.

should i keep talking to her? she sounds very interested and asks me to catch up with her :S - i actually used to really like her but now she seems to of become one of the girls i hate. any suggestions?


Yeah dude. Sounds like she wants attention but may also want you to fvck her. There are many ways to guage her interest. I suggest you set things up and go for the kill the minute you see that chance.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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shes looking to salvage anything from your relationship before.
or at least, lets just say she might have been wondering all this time how it is when its with you shes doing it with. cummon. be realistic. maybe shes just wondering. either way, setup something. after all, youre still friends, right?
 

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Don't give her the pleasure of fvcking you. She's back to check out that she isn't damaged.


You dumping her had a major affect on her.


Perhaps fvcking you, or getting you to take her out (and perhaps not giving it to you) is the last step in her recovery.


It's simply is not worth it. There are so many other girls. Stop talking to her at all and don't meet her, and when you see her tell her straight up you're not interested. If she continues texting you, text back "you're weired", and then stop all communication.
 
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