Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ex GF Asking Questions

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i sent her a sms back in christmas and she sent one back saying that wants to have a coffee and that she wants to know what i've been up to. she asked me in the sms she sent me today: where are you living? are you working?

is it just me or is she trying to know what my financial status is? i didnt answer and i feel i dont want / need to.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She's just checking you're ok. Probably a friend catch up thing, just find out how you are. Women do that sh1t because they are nosey.

Go along, expect nothing and who knows? But I don't see an agenda here, loads of my exes do this.
 
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just sent her a text message wishing a merry christmas, wasnt waiting for a reply really.

anyway why so curious about what job i have or if any, or where i live. dont kniow it's kinda strange asking that out of the blue.
 
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or maybe i'm to burned out from the dating game / relationships thing that i now think every girl has an agenda or hidden intentions.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Women like communicating, they like knowing what people are up to, they care about friends and like to maintain that. This woman is all of these, but you are trying to see another agenda there and meaning in it when there needn't be. Remember, work is a big part of our lives as is where we live, she's just enquiring about two of the important things in life.

She seems like a nice person and yes, I think you've been burnt by women along the way and have become suspicious of their actions. In this case don't be, *REALLY*!
 
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