"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ex/FwB hanging in the same social circle advice needed

Father Joseph

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So I was in a relationship with this girl for 8 months we broke up last October we have had "friends with benefits" deal from the same night we broke up haha (what a genious idea) It has gone quite well despite a few incidents ( for example I made out with her friend:up: ) I have gotten over her pretty much but I think she still has feelings for me.

Now it has gotten to the point where I want to try out different girls and try spin some plates. I need advice how to pull this of because as the title says she is in the same social circle. I have a lot of friends but the group where I hang out the most she hangs in too. Her two friends are in relationship with my two best friends so when I go to the local nightclub with my friends she is there. And almost everytime I am on a nightout solo or with my other friends she is there. This is a small city so there is only few clubs.

I know that if I take a girl home in front of her she will snap. Just to point out my game also includes daygame. Clubs are not the only places I'll try to approach girls


She is a really nice girl, submissive, respectful and reliable and the sex is just great. She is down for it anytime I want.


So how I should proceed with this? Has anyone had similiar experiences? If you need details feel free to ask. May God bless you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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beatjunkie

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It shouldn't matter how she feels bro.

It ended last october so you have no commitments to pay off.

Spin plates, even if its infront of her and let her hamster run wild (which it will). When she gets mad, LGBF her.
 

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beatjunkie said:
It shouldn't matter how she feels bro.

It ended last october so you have no commitments to pay off.

Spin plates, even if its infront of her and let her hamster run wild (which it will). When she gets mad, LGBF her.
I am not familiar with the term LGBF.. could you tell me what it means?
 

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Thanks

And thanks for the input @beatjunkie. I would to like some other point of views about this topic. Thanks
 

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Careful man, been there. Took a sweet natured girl that I had split from, but would still hook up with, and pushed her by picking up girls in front of her. Randomly one night she snaps, walks up throws a drink on the girl I was making out with. Then proceeds to smash me in the face with it.

Ended with getting stitches and still have the scars lol. Luckily aren't noticeable anymore.

Best thing is tell her what you want. She may not hook up anymore, but why play the game of trying to pick up girls without pissing her off. It lowers your chances with other girls and her at the same time.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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