Ex dumps me, but wants to be friends and now ignores me!

[Dave111]

My first serious girlfriend dumped me last year after going out with her for about 7 months. I was at the time pretty upset, but she wanted to be friends with me, however a number of issues involving trust stopped me from wanting to have anything to do with her, so I just cut off contact with her altogether. God even the day after she dumped me she text me to ask if I wanted to go to the cinema with her, as friends! WTF????, I just ignored her text.

This happened all about 9 months ago and now whenever I see her at parties or the pub or wherever, she ignores me.

Now I dont really care one way or the other about what this girl thinks of me, I just dont get how she seems to be ignoring me, when she has no reason to.

Any ideas lads why a girl would do this, or is she just f****d up in the head?

 

[chlywly]

If you don't care then MOVE on.... Besides it really doesn't matter.
The only thing that matters if YOU, your perception of what happened and you moving on and letting go.

So let go, be free let her be free, and go get some damn digits.

Don't waste your time, dwelling and over analysing the past. What matters is not why she did it, but that she DID it.

 

[confused_girly]

She called you to invite you to the cinema to make her feel less guilty about dumping you....you didn't fall into her little plan

So she felt bad - YOU made her feel bad so she's blaming you for that so she's ignoring you.

Her problem!

If you get the chance, laugh at her for being a silly little girl.

 

[dionysius_d]

can't comment on why she broke up.. you would know better anyway.

she invited you out, probably cause she was feeling 'bad', as confused said above.

then she ignored you cause her pride was hurt when u didn't reply.. and she probably doesn't wanna make anything worse.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by confused_girly
She called you to invite you to the cinema to make her feel less guilty about dumping you....you didn't fall into her little plan

So she felt bad - YOU made her feel bad so she's blaming you for that so she's ignoring you.

Her problem!

If you get the chance, laugh at her for being a silly little girl.

Bingo...

 

[Starman]

I also notice cutting off contact with women is a BIG EGO BRUISE..they cant seem to fathom why a guy would want to stop talking to them..duhh..

you made her feel $hitty about her self..and the fact that she is still angry and holding a grudge should be music to your ears

hell hath no fury than a woman scorned!

 

[Dave111]

hoho hell hath no fury than a women scorned!

I'll tell you my story man....I wish I'd never been born!...

I'm loose at the seams, I've broken My dreams and my hand it shakes the pen.......come on come now baby let the ...GOOD TIMES ROLL AGAIN!!!! Yeah!


"Sorry that was just a tune by the stone roses that I liked.