"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ex droppin off some pics tomorrow

Colinski282

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Of course i have never called or initiated a text since the break up. My ex has kept in contact with me since we broke up a month ago by texting me and she laid on one drunk call saying she would still do me lol. Anyways she sent a txt today sayin shes droppin off some pics tomorrow. This will be the first time i have seen her....I need some advice of how to act...some good body language and actions so maybe in the future i can smash. :trouble:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mrRuckus

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Colinski282 said:
Of course i have never called or initiated a text since the break up. My ex has kept in contact with me since we broke up a month ago by texting me and she laid on one drunk call saying she would still do me lol. Anyways she sent a txt today sayin shes droppin off some pics tomorrow. This will be the first time i have seen her....I need some advice of how to act...some good body language and actions so maybe in the future i can smash. :trouble:
dont answer the door
 

Colinski282

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so they saw if feelings are involved....there are none
 

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Just act like shes just some chick you're gaming. Simple. Ex doesnt mean anything other than "You're back into the ocean little fishy. Let's see if I can catch you again, just for the hell of it"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yuriy777

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Skilla_Staz said:
Just act like shes just some chick you're gaming. Simple. Ex doesnt mean anything other than "You're back into the ocean little fishy. Let's see if I can catch you again, just for the hell of it"
Catch and release huh? lol
 
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