"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ex droppin off some pics tomorrow

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Of course i have never called or initiated a text since the break up. My ex has kept in contact with me since we broke up a month ago by texting me and she laid on one drunk call saying she would still do me lol. Anyways she sent a txt today sayin shes droppin off some pics tomorrow. This will be the first time i have seen her....I need some advice of how to act...some good body language and actions so maybe in the future i can smash. :trouble:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Colinski282 said:
Of course i have never called or initiated a text since the break up. My ex has kept in contact with me since we broke up a month ago by texting me and she laid on one drunk call saying she would still do me lol. Anyways she sent a txt today sayin shes droppin off some pics tomorrow. This will be the first time i have seen her....I need some advice of how to act...some good body language and actions so maybe in the future i can smash. :trouble:
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dont answer the door
 
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so they saw if feelings are involved....there are none
 
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Just act like shes just some chick you're gaming. Simple. Ex doesnt mean anything other than "You're back into the ocean little fishy. Let's see if I can catch you again, just for the hell of it"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Skilla_Staz said:
Just act like shes just some chick you're gaming. Simple. Ex doesnt mean anything other than "You're back into the ocean little fishy. Let's see if I can catch you again, just for the hell of it"
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Catch and release huh? lol
 
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