"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Last post on this thread for a while because it's time for me to move on and just forget about her. I'm very upset but thankful right now. Just wanted to speak my mind about this.

While shes living with her new bf now, I was here waiting for a email or a text or any sign. Now I'm thankful she didn't because it would of only delayed my progress.

We've been in no contact since the breakup but man I feel more liberated now more than ever.

I've been waiting for this day this entire summer. For almost 3 and a half months. This was the milestone that I set for myself in my head. "Will she send me a text regardless of the rebound" "Does she really care or does she not"

Guess it was all a lie and she doesn't really care. My whole perception of her changed. I don't even know who she is anymore. I can't believe I did the things I did for her.

Man these last few months have been hell for me but I'm thankful for the lesson.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What would you have done if she did send you a Happy Birthday?

That's probably why she didn't. Just sayin.
 

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Upset you didn't get a birthday text from an ex? Since when did MEN become such sissy fagg0ts?

Newsflash: The minute your ex left, you were as good as dead. Right now, she is getting railroaded by another guy, loving it, and has zero thoughts about you.

Are you getting angry? Good! Now, what are your going to do this with this newfound sage wisdom?
 

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Swallow that bitter Red Pill..... You will be a better man once you do.....
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yewki

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I've been waiting for this day this entire summer. For almost 3 and a half months. This was the milestone that I set for myself in my head. "Will she send me a text regardless of the rebound" "Does she really care or does she not"

Guess it was all a lie and she doesn't really care. My whole perception of her changed. I don't even know who she is anymore. I can't believe I did the things I did for her.

Man these last few months have been hell for me but I'm thankful for the lesson.
This is extremely sad to read. Your entire summer lead up to a god damn text message

If you had other options and other things going on in your life you wouldn't even care. But no, instead you choose to cling to the idea of getting back with your ex and wallow in your own self pity
 

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Last post on this thread for a while because it's time for me to move on and just forget about her. I'm very upset but thankful right now. Just wanted to speak my mind about this.

While shes living with her new bf now, I was here waiting for a email or a text or any sign. Now I'm thankful she didn't because it would of only delayed my progress.



We've been in no contact since the breakup but man I feel more liberated now more than ever.

I've been waiting for this day this entire summer. For almost 3 and a half months. This was the milestone that I set for myself in my head. "Will she send me a text regardless of the rebound" "Does she really care or does she not"

Guess it was all a lie and she doesn't really care. My whole perception of her changed. I don't even know who she is anymore. I can't believe I did the things I did for her.

Man these last few months have been hell for me but I'm thankful for the lesson.
In 3.5 months you could have gotten completely ripped at the gym, learned a new language, started a new business, and still had spare time to meet and fvck at least 4 other women.

You chose to wait for a text! Life is about choices............you made a bad choice here.

Why keep looking backward instead of moving forward?

Why choose pain and regret over freedom?

Do you dislike yourself that much?

Keeping your life on hold for two words doesn't make sense dose it??

You deserve more than this little brother.
 

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What were you expecting?

The message: move on
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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