"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ex-coworker is HIV positive.

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that makes 2 people I know with HIV, one I didn't really know but saw a couple of times and one who I worked with everyday and hung out with on occasion.
First one was a foreign student from the east coast that used his tuition money and paid for sex with escorts and hookers left and right and didn't use protection. Second one apparently was bi and got it from his live in bf, he in turn unknowingly gave it to his bf's sister. He's been awol for the past few wks and the company is trying to figure out what to do to get rid of him. Apparently he has some strand of hiv that's untreatable.

Not putting anyone's business out there since this is a private forum but just sending out a message that this **** is real. Don't be a fool, wrap your tool.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Fingerling

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Cheers for the eye opener. My issue is with jonnys........ I can't keep it up with one on cause I can't feel anything so what can I do bout that. Either get a s**k or find a thin jonny?
 

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Lot's of nasty people out there. The Bi's are the worse, they have infiltrated our women. It's not only HIV, but herpes is like a wildfire where I live. It's a nasty disease. Fuvkin **** man, not safe anywhere.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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trent81 said:
Lot's of nasty people out there. The Bi's are the worse, they have infiltrated our women. It's not only HIV, but herpes is like a wildfire where I live. It's a nasty disease. Fuvkin **** man, not safe anywhere.
where ya live trent?
this **** is scary :nervous:
 

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Neither of the cases are surprising.

Frequent unprotected sex with hookers.
Unprotected gay sex.

Doesn't change the fact that the average man will not catch HIV.

Still

"Don't be a fool, wrap your tool."
 
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