Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ex contacts me after 3 months NC

Powerofmindset

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=186888

The above link is how it started along with my followup replies.

I acted way too AFC after she said she loved me. Before that our relationship was great.

Anyways recently she has been randomly texting my roommate and mutual friends but they are mostly inside jokes. One of those was directed toward me with no response from me or my roommate about it because he got the text. Fast forward to yesterday...she sent me a msg on facebook as a feeble attempt to get me to say something back to her. (another inside joke)

Question: still love the girl, wish we could be back together but i know im not ready for that. i also know as soon as i start to engage she will friendzone me or run the other way. Ways to go about the msg she sent me?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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st_99

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do not resond. see if it makes her a little nuts. btw, girls do this stuf ALL the time, mostly doesn't mean much other than they are just nosey.


i've had girls contact me 6 months even a year later.
 
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