"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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EX Contacted me, What would she want?

omgwtfm8

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Me and my exes status: went out for 6 months, Ending it due to us cheating on each other, her 4 times, me 1 time. Then i broke it off after I she told me right after she hooked up with someone. Now it's been 1 month w/ no contact. until:

Last Friday night, 11:00pm, I get home from hanging out with this new chick and i'm getting ready to go back out to this party w/ my boy. She calls me.

Our convo,

Her: Hey
Me: Hey, what's up?
Her: (friends making noise and people talking in backround)
Me: What are you doing, are you drunk? Is this your drunk call?
Her: No i'm not drinking, i'm going swimming
Me: Oh... right i got another call coming in, hold on

Then i just hang up.

She calls me back, i pick up the phone and say:

"What... i'm busy, i gotta go bye" hang up

She calls me back, I ignore.

She texts me right after:

"I can't believe you are being so immature, What is the problem? We're both over each other, Why can't you be civil and talk to me?"

I didn't text back.

I'm starting to miss her now and wonder what she wanted. What do you think?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KillaCam

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omgwtfm8 said:
I'm starting to miss her now and wonder what she wanted.
Don't. Don't miss her, don't wonder anything. Ex's, especially ones who have cheated, are trouble.

What she wanted is irrelevent, it does not matter. Don't even give her the time of day.
 

Hitman10000

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If she's under 25, Ignore/Move on.

If she's over 25, maybe you can see what's up (most unlikely in this case)
 

Cod3r

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Me and my exes status: went out for 6 months, Ending it due to us cheating on each other, her 4 times, me 1 time. Then i broke it off after I she told me right after she hooked up with someone. Now it's been 1 month w/ no contact. until:

Last Friday night, 11:00pm, I get home from hanging out with this new chick and i'm getting ready to go back out to this party w/ my boy. She calls me.

Our convo,

Her: Hey
Me: Hey, what's up?
Her: (friends making noise and people talking in backround)
Me: What are you doing, are you drunk? Is this your drunk call?
Her: No i'm not drinking, i'm going swimming
Me: Oh... right i got another call coming in, hold on

Then i just hang up.

She calls me back, i pick up the phone and say:

"What... i'm busy, i gotta go bye" hang up

She calls me back, I ignore.

She texts me right after:

"I can't believe you are being so immature, What is the problem? We're both over each other, Why can't you be civil and talk to me?"

I didn't text back.

I'm starting to miss her now and wonder what she wanted. What do you think?
I'm sorry that is fvcking HILARIOUS !!

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I broke up with my ex of 3 years cuz I cheated and felt bad, she hated me and I hated her for the next 2 or so months, then she would just start calling out of nowhere and saying the stupidest things... mine still wanted to fvck me, so maybe urs is different...

I had no feelings so i could care less and thas why she stayed addicted, but if urs really has no feelings (which im assuming) and you do (im also asusming) its bad news as its gonna fvck you over psychologically... move on


-Cod3r
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Truth

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She wants you back under her control and she wants an ego boost. You did right to ignore her.

She cheated on you 4 times remember! Do you really want to be a doormat to a b!tch like that?
 

Fash

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Dude,

She is handing it to you on a plate!

Bang her again, glaze her face like a Krispy Kreme doughnut then kick the cheating biatch out!

I LOVE doing that to cheating, attention seeking ho's. Something about the satisfaction I get from it.
 

High Voltage

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Fash said:
Dude,

She is handing it to you on a plate!

Bang her again, glaze her face like a Krispy Kreme doughnut then kick the cheating biatch out!

I LOVE doing that to cheating, attention seeking ho's. Something about the satisfaction I get from it.
On the other side, it might be even more devastating to her to know that even her puzzy won't buy her another chance. The stereotype is that all guys ever want is sex... so show her how worthless she is that you won't even touch her for that. It also makes you the stronger person; someone who is not ruled by their c0ck. Just a thought.

- HV
 

The Truth

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I agree with High Voltage. Even if she does want to f*ck, it's on HER terms and she's using sex to control you.

Stand up for yourself and don't go running back like her little puppy dog.
 

solo1

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haha now if my ex had the balls to say those kind of things to me.
A similar thing happened to me yesterday as stated in one of my posts.

In any case, if they were the one to screw you over, you do not let them get the upperhand even if they're the ones that want to talk to you or even wants you back bad. If anything is to happen or you want to talk it should be on your terms not hers.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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