"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey everyone,

I have a question about an ex that I went through a horrible break up over two years ago with.

She claims to have saw me at the gym. A few days later, she blows my phone up from a blocked number. I don't answer blocked calls so I hit ignore. Eight times later, I answer it and its her wanting to talk so I hang up on her mid-sentence.

I suspect that she called me a few nights prior to the psycho 'day' because I got a call from a blocked number that I mistakenly answered and someone was just listening on the other side.

What do you guys make of this? As far as I know, she's happily involved in a relationship. Why the **** would anyone want to talk to their ex and "see how they're doing" after things ended horribly?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yes, she pretty much dumped me. You know how breakups go...the back and forth **** went on and tempers just flared up and finally it was over.

I tried asking her but she gave me the dumb excuse that she just wanted to see how I was doing. I don't know of anyone that suddenly just blows someone's phone up just to see how they're doing...
 
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Keep giving her the iggy button. She just wan't Validation that she made the better choice, in leaving you. Don't give her that satisfaction.... the other grass she's ****ting on is probably turning 3 shades of brown now. Like most AW that brake up, she's looking for some attention. Continue to improve in the gym and having your finances in order. She is seeing how much of a catch you were after the fact.... Too bad. Her ****ing loss...
 
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That's right, since she saw you at the gym she wants to KNOW what's going on with you at this point in your life.

Not only that, if you would have decided to talk to her when she called you(wish no one should do under these circumstances), she would probably just interview you for information purposes just to satisfy her "curiosity".

We all know she's not curious, she simply wants to know what's she's missing. Obviously, that's not gonna happen.

These chicks are jokes. 8x in a row?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yeah...and she claimed to be mature. In my experiences, mature women don't block their numbers and when they call, if you don't answer, they leave a message and that's that.

I have no interest in turning her into an FB. As you said before, it's dangerous and I don't want anything to do with her. Plus, it would give her the satisfaction of her knowing that I'm the weaker of the two.

Several months before this stuff that happened, I saw her when I was walking through a Best Buy parking lot. She jumped out of her boyfriend's car looking excited. When she called my name, I recognized it was her and kept on walking.

I know if I were her boyfriend and she acted like that in front of me over one of her ex's, I'd have to cut her loose...
 
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ignore the brawd. she aint about nothin.
 
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Good advice, everyone. I just wanted to know the reasoning behind her actions. Simply put, she's just crazy...

Thank you all...
 
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