"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ex called me.

mustfirstregister

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She called me she fvcking thinks I'm her friend and starts talking friends ****s things to me that I don't even care about. Basically I said to her I wanna fvck her. She didn't like it and she hung up. She is like you changed....Well I fvcking don't care. If she doesn't fvck me it's her lost besides I can get more girls anyway. Did I handle it good or bad?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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backbreaker

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honestly, you handled that ****ing brilliantly.

lol, you HAVE changed lol! you aren't her damn crying shoulder anymore.

You have successfully cut to the chase in 1 phone conversation. YOu were honest about what you want in the relationship, she just didn't want the same.


Ihe key is not to **** her, the key is to get to the point and to weed out the uninterested.

In one conversation you found out what her motives were, not to **** you lol. no, siting around making 10 15 posts a month about every action she made.. look babe, you are hot, let's cut to the chase, you know i want that ass. if she said you changed what she is really saying "****, so I guess me just talking to you doesn't do it anymore, crap i'm going to have to find someone else"


well played sir.



What you have to watch out for however, is that if she is like most girls, she will send you an email or a text in about 3-5 days saying "i can't believe you changed, i missed the old you" or some **** like that, as admiral ackbar would say 'it's a trap". Most guys **** up here. Most guys, will call or answer the call and sit on the phone and slowly revert back to their ol.d AFC ways, then she goes and ****s someone else and they are left holding the bag.

Stick to your guns. She can either lay down or get out, not that bluntly of course. No, don't agree to go out with her as friends, no dont' agree to do jack **** with an ex.. you laid out your terms. come over her and **** me, if that's what you want out the relationship, accept nothing less. Then, and only then when she has given you something do you give her something she wants in return.
 

Prodigy746

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maybe you could have been more smooth with her but its whatever. If she broke up w you than **** her, plenty of fish in the sea.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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