Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ex BPD art major painted an unflattering picture of me

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Hey all.

Broke up with my BPD ex a month ago who I cannot believe I was strong enough to get the hell away from. bytch was insane.

anyway while we dated since she is an art major I let her take a picture of me shirtless to then paint in her free time. I'd forgotten about it after a while but this cvnt painted the picture of me with a pot belly and a receding hairline which at the time she swore she was going to paint me with a six pack abs and full head of hair. (im currently working out and trying to save to get hair restoration treatments).

The problem is she put the picture up as her Facebook profile pic and I've noticed since we've shared the same social circle a lot of people I know we're commenting laughing and making extremely fcked up remarks about my looks in the painting she did.

I'm furious. I need help guys. wtf with these bpd cvnts!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Infern0

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listen monkey, stop being a beta fagg0t. Go out sarging, neg the target, DHV, GFTOW, spin plates, and don't believe these poor, broke, virgins. it wasn't bpd, it was all you, you lesser calibre man!

sincerely,
a 240 pounder who gives fitness advice
BPD doesn't exist.

It's just the effect on women of being in contact with an AFC

Any woman who comes in contact with an AFC starts cutting herself and all the rest of that stuff, only real alpha males can make women mentally normal
 

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Hey, artkid here who is familiar with doing unsavory portraits to neg people.

The thing you got to know is that she's feeding on the likes she's getting from her art and the negs they're giving you. She's getting moist and drooling over the attention her piece is giving her, but that's it. Only the piece is valuable. It's only even relevant because it's depicting YOU in a negative fashion. If it was anyone else drawn in a gross fashion, they'd look at it and go "Who the hell is that and why should we care?"

You see, most artists are inherently worthless. I know because I am one. It's all about what they create that defines them, and this poor girl decided that the only way her hard work was ever going to pay off and get noticed was by smearing you. Art is subjective. To her, it's a masterpiece depicting the truth of you, but to you and everyone else, it's a sad obsessive work that advertises "I HATE SCREWBALL AND WANT TO NEG HIM BECAUSE I'M INFERIOR!"

No such thing as bad publicity. Her informing everyone of your existence is working in your favor, because once they notice that you barely resemble her artpiece, that makes her come off as a bitter butthurt ***** that hates her ex.

Don't openly show distain at the painting. Humorously critique it. Your good humor against her vindictiveness will make you more appealing and deny her what she wants.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Want some advice?

Take that picture, and make it your profile picture. Tag her in the description and say thanks for the fan art. Laugh and smile, and even give her advice on what to add to it.
Lol. That is the best thing he could do.:cool:
 

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Use that pic as incentive to get in shape. Quit making excuses.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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(im currently working out and trying to save to get hair restoration treatments).
Completely missed that part.

edit: OP, I wouldn't worry about hair restoration. Shave it close and own it.
 
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Hey all.

Broke up with my BPD ex a month ago who I cannot believe I was strong enough to get the hell away from. bytch was insane.

anyway while we dated since she is an art major I let her take a picture of me shirtless to then paint in her free time. I'd forgotten about it after a while but this cvnt painted the picture of me with a pot belly and a receding hairline which at the time she swore she was going to paint me with a six pack abs and full head of hair. (im currently working out and trying to save to get hair restoration treatments).

The problem is she put the picture up as her Facebook profile pic and I've noticed since we've shared the same social circle a lot of people I know we're commenting laughing and making extremely fcked up remarks about my looks in the painting she did.

I'm furious. I need help guys. wtf with these bpd cvnts!
Why let the actions of a spitefull ex dictate your feelings?

The fact that she did this says more about her immaturity than it does about you.

Next. Move on. She is an ex. Who cares what she thinks.
 

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Want some advice?

Take that picture, and make it your profile picture. Tag her in the description and say thanks for the fan art. Laugh and smile, and even give her advice on what to add to it.
OP. Read this.
 

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update: implementing no contact starting today, going out to daygame and painting my own picture to use eventually as my FB main pic six pack abs and full head of hair per you guys instructions.
 

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This is why you don't keep exes on Facebook.
Next week she is going to flaunt your replacement as the love of her life, just to get under your skin.
Just block her without notice and let it burn.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I just sent her a message on FB if she doesn't remove that crap painting she did of me im going to sue her. I'll give her a few days to take it down or im going to her house an beat her awful.

I'm pissed as hell right now!!!

I'm also going to paint my own self portrait and have it rated online vs her crap as proof she wasted her time art majoring.

these cvnts need to be taught a lesson.

thank you guys for hearing me out.

Will update end off week
 

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Can you post the pic pls LOL come on bro....
 

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Can you post the pic pls LOL come on bro....
Not funny.

So I had sent the BPD bytch a FB message and she replied. I asked her nicely to please take it down and she countered offered with telling me she might put it on her e-bay account to sell with the other crap artwork she tries to pawn off on her followers. I tried to LGBF her to see if she would take the bait and do it for a friend but no go. (I left out telling her I was going to sue her in my opener)

I've read a few of the BPD threads on SS and I feel bad for you guys having to deal with these psycho cvnts. Bytch is spiteful as all hell and captioned the picture "Dad Bod" after our brief conversation with new commenters making smart ass remarks at the pic of me. It wasn't like I even dumped HER. I swear to GOD I wanted to write her back and say Yea you weren't calling me "Dad Bod" while I was ****ing you like my daughter bytch!

I honestly don't know what to do. I'm trying to go no contact but this psycho has me hostage with MY picture!!!!!!!!!!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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