"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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Ex being nervous around me, what does it mean?

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ICaughtFire

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i have this ex for like 4 months now and she's been acting nervous around me, when she sees me she hides behind her friend and she would just try whatever ways not to be seen by me, and when she does see me with her friends, she would tell them to yell out: "(my name) is mean!!!" or, "idiot!" or "dumb!" to me. Usually her friends just laugh when they do that so i know they are not being serious, is that signs of interest?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No! It's NOT! it's awkward being around your ex. I almost never talk to my ex except maybe a hi. The awkwardness will eventually subside with time.
 
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Wow, four months? What an immature biiiatch. I would guess she probably kinda likes you figuring she acts the way she does. Who knows though, girls are crazy.
 
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anyone else have opinions? and if she is interested in me and i want her back how do i repsonce to her neverousness?
 
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Girls are unpredictable sometimes. There's no way for us to give you a straight answer...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sounds like she either still likes you or she feels too uncomfortable to be around you since the break up

im gonna go with both on this one because if she didnt like you she would either walk away from you when she notices you or she would not care as much. she cares, and she makes it known by saying "icaughtfire is mean" which means " hes mean because he didnt give me a second chance yet"
 
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