"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ex asking if I'm seeing anyone..thoughts?

Bigbuttlover

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Not really an Ex, just a girl I dated for about 3 months. She ended up moving out of town for school.

Sent me a rather random text the other day saying.."So are you seeing anyone, any lucky ladies :)"

I'm dating and ****ing quite a few but nothing serious. I won't lie, I'd love to see her again if she comes back.

What do you guys think? Sound like she is interested (assuming she returns)?

Peace
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sinnerman

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just reply her theres some ''work in progress ;-)'' remain mysterious and dont show your cards..
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bigbuttlover

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sinnerman said:
just reply her theres some ''work in progress ;-)'' remain mysterious and dont show your cards..
That's what I'm thinking..

I also was thinking respond with..

"A gentleman never tells."

The mysterious way seems the right route though for sure...
 

mahoney

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"well it kind of depends what you mean by "seeing"!"
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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