"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Evverrydaay is exaaaactly the saaame....

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sparkogre

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Seriously, this ****'s boring.

I am taking

AP Physics
AP Bio
AP CA
AP Statistics

and 2 days a week I have a 2 hour calculus class in the evenings.

Now I know I will get no sympathy from those of you who did engineering or math, but **** this sucks.

I wake up at 6:30, spend time at school. Which isn't bad, but it's so... eh. I can't say it's boring, but it's always the same. Talk to the same people.

Get home at 2:30, sit around till 10:00 doing hw and stuff.

And my parents recently took away my guitar, so I'm going to start playing piano again (lol, nubs).

What are some good hobbies to take up? Preferably things I can do by myself, at home. I wanted to do MMA, but I have no time, thanks to calc.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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eaglez1177

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Are you a senior in HS?
 
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Analyzeit

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Get some friends! lol

Go out and see your friends.

Your maybe even get a girlfriend, i think getting a girlfriend is a great way to introduce yourself to the DJ world. You learn a sh!t load about girls from having a short long term relationship lol

"myself, at home"

I'm guessing you not allowed out or something, not my hobbies you can do at home alone... umm musical instrument, masturbating, write a book lol
 
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